Staring or not staring at other women..when with girlfriend

[Harbism]

Summer is definetly one of the most exciting period of the year. And it is soon coming. It is the period where most women usually like to show off what they got. Some women dress so provocatively that I naturally developed a wayward roving eye, it just seemed to happen instantly. Peeks were synonymous with unintentional thought.

 

Whenever a woman happened across me, it was like ...

 

I see breast ... sneak a peek

 

I see legs ... sneak a peek

 

I see a nice booty ... sneak a peek

 

I see a mini skirt .... all out drool

 

Stolen glances were my mental excursions, if I may. Although I knew it would never amount to more than a distant private stare, I have always received complains from my girlfriends. It is always ‘why are you disrespecting me kind of questions’ by staring at this girls. And I would usually come up with my classical defensive/offensive strategy turning the blame to them with a response like: ‘damn!, it’s all in your mind and why do you always worry about this little non sense details?’ This strategy worked perfectly well for me every time.

 

However, few years ago, I decided to avoid peeking at other girls when I am with my sweathearts. Still, the uncontrollable urge to stare from afar and visually wander was still there. And the fresh sting of "getting the taste smacked out of your mouth" was there also.

 

So I learned the hard way a new sequence of events ...

 

It was now like ...

 

I see breast ... sneak a peek, get a smack

 

I see legs ... sneak a peek, get a smack

 

I see a nice booty ... sneak a peek, get a double smack

 

I see a mini skirt .... do nothing but whimper

(from the rib punch)

 

It was almost as if my stolen glances were the forbidden fruit.

 

However, one thing became clear to me, although I love my sweathearts dearly, I can’t deny one part of me. If a roving eye is a sin........ then give me my sin. But from now on I will eventually revert to the defensive/offensive strategy.

 

Le Harbism…..

[underdog]

"Girlfriends"...."sweethearts" "them" all plural. Seems to me like you have a self-control problem.

[Gediid]

Guess what girls stare just as many times as the guys if not more but they are very discreet about it.If you look for the right signals you will get to know when to catch the Miss in the act.Once you point that out to her.The smack will definately stop.

[Jaabir]

Originally posted by Harbism:

It is the period where most women usually like to show off what they got.

this sentence sounds a little off dawg but good luck with the sneaking..

[Bambina]

Sup to ma nomads, yo Harbi u start again ur crazy topic ,I dont complain about it but it seems i've seen it sumwhere else and I guess u know where,lol.If u were ma boi and u were starin at other gals ,I would've beaten u up long time ago and guess where ?in ur manhood,lol.Take care.

[Valenteenah.]

Originally posted by underdog:

Seems to me like you have a self-control problem.

Looks that way.

[WILDCAT]

I don't blame him at all! I have the same problem. Gaalos love going shirtless. Show me a six-pack going by and you'll see the Cat with whiplash.

 

I myself wouldn't comment over a simple involuntary look. If this were accompanied by winking or smiles or some other signals, then there'd be a problem. Only a look - annoying, but not enough to take someone to task over it. I'd be in trouble too, and we'd have a case of pot and kettle.

 

The risk of living in gaalo territory innit :cool:

[Iffah]

Originally posted by CarbonBasedLifeform:

The risk of living in gaalo territory innit

True. :mad:

 

Summer is almost here...and you guys need to practice lowering your gazes. Walk like you're admiring your s***s ...and be careful so that you don't walk into any poles.

[Iffah]

That was sh0es. ...I was wondering what I said wrong....now I see

[Che -Guevara]

Harbism......There is nothing wrong in appreciating the beauty of God's creatures by gazing at them a little.lool...Now if yu make some gesture while gazing or yu gaze at women too long. ...That might to be good reason for your girl to be upset a little.

later

[StarGazer]

Summer is almost here...and you guys need to practice lowering your gazes. Walk like you're admiring your s***s ...and be careful so that you don't walk into any poles.

 

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LOL. yup, good advice.