Abdinuur Posted February 6, 2006 Would you rather be with the one you love or the one that loves you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted February 6, 2006 ^ wlc bck To answer. I would rather be with the one who loves me. Why? I know myself, sooner or later this person will grow on me, and the love will be returned by me, I am jus that kind of person. But I cannot go on loving someone so deeply hoping that one day they will love me back as much as I love them, it's such a risk. Funny thing, in my choice, the other has to take the same risk!! I go back to my life long ideal "love is for suckers, where is my arranged marriage folks huh!?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted February 6, 2006 Jawahiir, very interesting!!! Tough choice! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Foxy Posted February 6, 2006 Love is not one way street, rather more like a two way street, the saying treat others like U would like to be treated comes to mind> U cant just simply expect others to keep on giving without getting something inturn....So I guess we all do things to benefit oneway or the other...I am sure realistically everyone would love to be the one that is loved rather than that is giving the love unconditionally, But me have news flash mate....this damn word is far from being a fiary tale...and real cases and options do vary without the shadow of doubt Myth.... is that loving is recieving more than giving......yeah right ! loving involves more receiving than giving. To love in a mature minded way we must learn to be attentive and to listen. We receive information from what the other person is telling us about themselves, their experience, and their feelings. after U been on the recieving end, you could be seen as "You're selfish" If you really loved me, you'd understand what I need. I've been giving and giving and I get nothing in return.. You don't give me what I want anymore.....an such lines could be the next thing the other raises should U be on the recieving end! It seems a correct and common sense view that we give love unconditionly so i hear...but then again thats just my opinion, chances are I could be dead wrong... cheers PS Common understanding of each others needs/wants/giving capabilities over rides everything...simple Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted February 6, 2006 i'd rather be with the one that loves me, same reason as jawahiir Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted February 6, 2006 Well, what do you know. The lady predicts...(4 years later...) Ahura The soothsayer fits like a glove ey. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted February 6, 2006 ^^that link is b*loody scary. there is even a girl wid similar name as me :mad: does xafsa happen to be jawahiir now i wonder Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted February 6, 2006 LoL @ Fay...why won't you let that thread go? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Caano Geel Posted February 7, 2006 ^ so watcha do in the end? have ya married him yet? and if not why did you play with the poor boy, break his heart and leave him to bleed? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nephissa Posted February 7, 2006 It's just not logical to presume that a person exists whom I will be in love with everday all day for the rest of my life, and it's way too unrealistic to expect that in another. Some days perseverence, some days love and somedays plotting your revenge seems more likely; all days with respect tho'. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted February 7, 2006 Originally posted by Caano Geel: ^ so watcha do in the end? have ya married him yet? and if not why did you play with the poor boy, break his heart and leave him to bleed? Shidh happens, as they say. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted February 7, 2006 ^^^ LoL True, then you move on.... Ahura huuno, Hand on heart there is no Alteria Motive...it's Purely Coincidental Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lake Posted February 8, 2006 Originally posted by Jawahiir: ^ wlc bck To answer. I would rather be with the one who loves me. Why? I know myself, sooner or later this person will grow on me, and the love will be returned by me, I am jus that kind of person. But I cannot go on loving someone so deeply hoping that one day they will love me back as much as I love them, it's such a risk. Funny thing, in my choice, the other has to huh!?" Ok so you say it that way, But say if you were to choose the other option.."A person you love" instead...sooner or later don't you think this person will grow on you just like how you would grow into that person that luved you, and hoping for the love to be returned? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
checkmate Posted February 8, 2006 Posted by Bishaaro It's just not logical to presume that a person exists whom I will be in love with everday all day for the rest of my life, and it's way too unrealistic to expect that in another. Some days perseverence, some days love and somedays plotting your revenge seems more likely; all days with respect tho'. I am broke today for i can't offer you anything,but mind you,I get paid on friday. On friday i will buy you chukulaato ayi nooc or ice-cream ayi nooc, adiga kala dooro...Eesh calaa. Ps: Xiin u xiir Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted February 8, 2006 Ibtisam.. um no Jawahiir has always been Jawahiir.. And pretty tone, the point is that I know myself I am capable of that kind of love, but is this person capable?? will he love me or will he continue to resent me for his decision...buddy thats a big risK~! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
