Endeavour Posted November 8, 2006 Originally posted by Khalaf: ^^^but the group not seen in mix weddings are the wadaads aka ikwaan Cambaros type maybe. quote: Originally ^^^^your theories prove you don’t trust the brothers, your too suspicious, not every brother is player or has ulterior motives. Only a dummy gives a girl he doesn’t know a rose out of the blank n only special girl is wroth dat trouble.........nah the smart brother watched u studied u, and u see him around, maybe got a smile from u, he received a good vibe from u, then one day he comes up to u asks your name, talks to you, then gives u a flower before u leave and says your very beautiful can I get to know you more? whats wrong with dat IB. (is that against Islam?) I don’t think! "smart brother watched u studied u"--Umm, so is this how hip-cool-modern-iikhwaan brothers operate these days? Sounds like stalking to me lol. Whatever happend to lowering your gaze? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted November 8, 2006 No khalaf, that is stalking and being annoying! call it romance or whatever else you want. :cool: ^^^^your theories prove you don’t trust the brothers, your too suspicious, not every brother is player or has ulterior motives . Of course they have ulterior motives, what the hell are they stalking you for, if not for their own gains, clearly it is not beacuse they are helping me out!! Only a dummy gives a girl he doesn’t know a rose out of the blank n only special girl is wroth dat trouble.........nah the smart brother watched u studied u, and u see him around, maybe got a smile from u, he received a good vibe from u, then one day he comes up to u asks your name, talks to you, then gives u a flower before u leave and says your very beautiful can I get to know you more? whats wrong with dat IB. (is that against Islam?) I don’t think! Yes it is against Islam, who gave him permission to follow me about and then come and talk to me, and give me a *S*T*U*P*I*D rose! what kind of Islam have they been teaching you dear? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Mind Posted November 8, 2006 The place is not that important as long as u happy with the person u met…, however it’s good to maintain good memory about the place ibtisam...i liked the way u met him .. so it was love from first sight Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Socod_badne Posted November 8, 2006 It beats meeting your significant other at blood banks which is how it's done in Japan. Evidently, in Japan singles search for partners based on blood types since they're nearly homogenous society. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xalimopatra Posted November 8, 2006 ^How do you find out about this stuff brotherman?!Yaab... Anyways did someone say BADHI?Lol I love the way Somalis say Party.... Back to the topic.I havent heard of many Somalis that have met their other half at xaflads or the like.Usually a recommendation ect.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted November 10, 2006 weddings would be the last place i will look for a man. just let u know sisters those guy who attend weddings happenz to be distriputing their numbers that nigh to tons of other women, dey aint anything bt players. So just keep yr eyes open, dont go oh i have go a specific place to meet a good brother, if u c a good brother at work, university , there aint nothing wrong with it. and i think it would be a lota better getting to know some1 whom u share a lot in common that way. wa salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shakti Posted November 10, 2006 ^^lol..@ those bros are players.. question: r u speaking from experience?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Socod_badne Posted November 10, 2006 ^^What could she possibly impart to you that's from experience. She hasn't had her wings clipped yet. Xaliimopatra, I read that in Women's magazine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shakti Posted November 10, 2006 ^well sir/madam the possibilities are endless however there is one possibility i would like u 2 consider 4 ur own sake and I do not wanna insult ur self-projected intelligence by stating that possibility so im gone let u figure it out however im willing to give ya a hint (call it early x-mas cadeau) : MIND UR OWN BUSINESS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shakti Posted November 10, 2006 ^ can someone delet this post, while u r at it... we wouldnt mind if u delet Socod_badne's id accidentally ....oyeeeeee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted November 10, 2006 Devil naah sis bt from what i observed over the years. wa salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beeteljuice Posted December 5, 2006 i find this really funny, i think somalies meet in party because thats what expected women dress themsleves up and make themselves beautiful and the guyss the same thing so it natural to look for a "future prospect" at weddings Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RedSea Posted December 5, 2006 Originally posted by Jacaylbaro: men and women meet at the parties coz that is when everybody is properly dressed and ready for Shukaansi. In the other places ,,, Ohhh Goshh ,,, i can resist to see woman with her dirac shiid and dacas and waiting for hook up ,,, hell no ,,, could be a dirty relationship I can't meet someone in da hospital too ,,,, could be a sick relationship Can't meet someone in the middle of the suuqa khudradda ,,, could be a noisy relationship and goes on ,,,,,, PARTY IS THE BEST OPTION I GUESS ,,,,,, ...very funny Wallahi,suuqa sariibad kuye. I agree. I think Ibtisam doesnt dislike brothers,she just hasn't found what she is looking for.You don't just go into store,grab a dress and say ring this one.You actually have to go,measure the length,the widh,then try it on and see if it fits,if it does,then you go with it.Sorry khalaf you aint that,if you know what I mean. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sophist Posted December 6, 2006 What is wrong with asking your mother to find you a nice xaawo or cabdi? Or isn't that hip anymore? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 6, 2006 ^^^depends on on well your mum knows you and what they think is important in life, which is different from what you think is important in life; Most young people, don't think that clan, race, Family status are toooo important, where parents are more likely to look for these things. Ridwaan, thats way below the belt, and you are wrong, i just don't like MEN. Ful. really Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
