Aaliyyah Posted January 31, 2008 ^^ why would a woman has to take the first move? imagine if he goes am not interested. that is so humiliating. at least if a man was turned down by a girl it is different. I just think a man has to make the first move. Some of you might say oh thats old fashion, bt trust me if you got a pride and self worth you wouldn't put yourself in a position where a guy could walk out on you. p.s. forget abt making the first move, make sure you play hard to get when he makes a move on you. Men love what they can't get, it comes second nature to them Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khalaf Posted January 31, 2008 forget abt making the first move, make sure you play hard to get when he makes a move on you. Men love what they can't get, it comes second nature to them lol typical somali girl...dahab iska diig dheh...saanka cirka uu taag. as for men love what they can't get...don't generalize walaaleey...raaga like gabdaha isku mid ma ah. i sure wouldn't like to play games...but would apperciate honesty and straight forwardness better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted January 31, 2008 ^^ofcourse you have to be honest once you establish a relationship. I just meant at the start ..xoga ha daaalo!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted January 31, 2008 Originally posted by AAliyah416: ^^ why would a woman has to take the first move? imagine if he goes am not interested. that is so humiliating. at least if a man was turned down by a girl it is different. I just think a man has to make the first move. Some of you might say oh thats old fashion, bt trust me if you got a pride and self worth you wouldn't put yourself in a position where a guy could walk out on you. p.s. forget abt making the first move, make sure you play hard to get when he makes a move on you. Men love what they can't get, it comes second nature to them ^Ah! Aaliyah, you ask why a woman would take initiative in finding herself a husband. Why not if that’s what she desires, there isn’t any thing wrong in doing so. I applaud those whom do take the initiative in searching, selecting a husband rather than wait for a man to decide if your worthy of being his wife. I believe once you know what you want and looking for, why not go out there and search for him. I don’t see anything wrong in this setting; those whom will attend have taken a step to finding their life partners and by doing so they come prepared to participate in the process. It might not be a traditional method to finding a husband, but had there ever been a time when a woman had the freedom to choose whomever she wants…. and am not talking if when she is asked. I am talking about women knowing what they want and going for it…Just like men do, they can chase you around, waste your time and still not marry you.But marry the one they knew all along to be the one worthy to them[well mostly,with the influence of their mothers..lol]. Unfortunately not everybody have uncles,aunties,cousins and brothers to introduce them to worthy men.With the enviroment and life styles we live in, these too can be a barrier to finding the man... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
N.O.R.F Posted January 31, 2008 ^^Well it is a leap year Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Som@li Posted January 31, 2008 Dahia al Kahina, Masha Allah, a brave girl, we need more like her. AAliyah416, Don't take it for literally abt making the first move, a girl interested in a man can always show some hints, signals,lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted January 31, 2008 ^ :confused @ Northerner. Dabshid its not about being brave its about thinking strategicaly.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
N.O.R.F Posted January 31, 2008 Feb will have 29 days this year = leap year (when is is traditionally OK for women to propose - they say) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted January 31, 2008 Dahia, good luck to those who wanna make the first move. I have too much pride... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dhagax-Tuur Posted January 31, 2008 ^too much pride ain't good for the soul, me hear somewhere... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted January 31, 2008 Aaliya sis Sometimes just a wink will do. Not much work is really involved on your part Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted January 31, 2008 ^ haye is it that simple,I thought flattering your eye lids,glacing his direction every other minute...is a good hint your interested. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted January 31, 2008 do tell me more girl..lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted January 31, 2008 ^Lol..that my darling will require a one to one tuition,..When are you available for the lesson? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
