Castro Posted May 26, 2006 Originally posted by Scarlet: I wanna be married now. Anyone want a temporary union so I can judge for myself what's so good about it? Atheer, temporary unions are outside the legal limits in Islam. If you're this curious (or desperate), I can fedex you a minyar application overnight. If you qualify, you can join me and the others down here. Speak not of temporary unions. They're an abomination. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janna Posted May 27, 2006 Originally posted by JUSTICE: he is my first and only love. but he doesn't know that. so should I tell him, or pretend that am not Never admit it unless he does. Never let the words "I love you" escape your lips. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janna Posted May 27, 2006 And congratulations you have found your calaf. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted May 27, 2006 ^^ thanks sis You sound like you're too happy about the ex-lover coming back than the marriage. Is marriage that easy nowadays? It's not about that at all sis. I tried to see others, and no one could be compared to him, yeah for real. I tried to find what i lost in other guys. that's why am happy. and good guys are hard to find in UK. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RedSea Posted May 27, 2006 Assalamu calaykum. Congradualations sis Justice, I am really happy for you and your newly husband. The fact that you are happy with your new partner is a signal of a marriage that will last long. I wish you both the best of everything. Secondly, remember you are the one who has discovered the treasure of marriage, so don't take any advice from your fellow ladies who are still searching for what you have found already. I doubt their advice is any good. Offcourse love and gentelness should be your main priorities with you and your new husband. Saying "I love you to him" is something that you should do as well as he should too. Finally, make sure he knows that you love him so much and that he was and still is your first choice. Assalamu calaykum. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
facklexm Posted May 27, 2006 Justice, a while ago you was telling me, u dated about ten guys in short life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted May 27, 2006 ^^^I haven't mate Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
- Femme - Posted May 27, 2006 Justice, I was kidding about the throwing it in his face part. That was an awful advice (given jokingly!). Never do that - as long as it's in the past, keep it there. Red Sea: L0L. Hey, you never know. Castro: How I wish I knew your wife. War iga daqaaq. :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nephissa Posted May 27, 2006 ^ L00L. I'm sure she wouldn't mind having you there, less housework for her, and lots of xaaax makes a happy Pharax and household. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mowgli Posted May 27, 2006 marriage season is in full swing eh? Mabrook Justice inshaAllah, may you be as happy with each other forever as you are this moment :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Didi Kong Posted May 28, 2006 Justice this is one singular event for whom I should say mabrook to you. LOL. have fun. Tell him everythings what is the use of keeping everthing for yourself. Simply none. Tell me how it goes I don't want to missed it. alright abaayo. bye. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Lily- Posted May 28, 2006 Congrats Justice, Don't keep any skeletons in your closet that might harm you later on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Resistance Posted May 28, 2006 Congrats Justice, but i wonder what am gonna do with your address now, am not one to gate grash a party, so i think i'll just dump it in the pin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted May 28, 2006 ^^^ Don'y worry , there are so many Fish in the sea Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted May 28, 2006 a somali wedding $5k a xalimo mihar $2k reason for the wedding cluless! just a xalimo pulled it out of her tuxos! he dunno that u his first! slap that monkey!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites