Somali wedding planners rejoice in new freedom

[Jacaylbaro]

MOGADISHU, July 28 (Reuters) - Women decked out in brightly coloured gowns, gold jewellery and elaborate hairstyles dance with men to the slow tunes of Somali love songs.

 

A pianist, guitarist and female singer entertain the crowd packed into a small, stuffy hall for a wedding reception.

 

Such a scene would have been unthinkable in Mogadishu just months ago when a hardline Muslim movement ruled the seaside capital and much of southern Somalia, imposing sharia law and shutting down many forms of entertainment seen as un-Islamic.

 

But business is back after the interim government, with Ethiopian military help, in January ejected the Islamists and their strict form of Islam.

 

Revelling in their new freedom, excited guests cheer and shower the singer with scarves and a confetti of Somali money.

 

"I'm very happy," wedding planner Muna Omar said as the reception at a former military compound starts to wind down.

 

"During the Islamic reign we would never dare organise such a party," she said. "They considered it unlawful."

 

When the Somali Islamic Courts Council was in charge last year, they banned wedding parties, shut video halls screening foreign films and World Cup football matches, outlawed a hugely popular narcotic, khat, and harassed men's barbers.

 

They also ordered women to wear the hijab, an outfit covering the body and head.

 

At first, many residents praised them for bringing relative stability to much of a country that had become a byword for anarchy since dictator Mohamed Siad Barre was ousted in 1991.

 

But they were abhorred by others for imposing restrictions on a Muslim society that is traditionally moderate and they drew unfavourable comparisons to the Taliban movement in Afghanistan.

 

 

GOWNS AND MAKE-UP

 

One guest taking a break from dancing recalls how he was at a secret party in Mogadishu last year that the Islamists heard of and decided to break up.

 

"We invited a few guests and the music was on low volume. I don't know who tipped off Islamist troops, but they stormed in and disrupted the party," he said. "They flogged and chased away guests. I was so shocked."

 

Then he returns to the heaving dance floor, a group of young men looking on with grins, clapping his every twist and turn.

 

Mogadishu remains one of the world's most dangerous cities, and remnants of the Islamist movement are blamed for almost daily insurgent strikes targeting interim government troops, Ethiopian patrols and African Union peacekeepers from Uganda.

 

A major peace conference under way in the north of the city has been attacked with volleys of mortar shells -- which missed and crashed down onto residential streets nearby.

 

But many were relieved to see the back of the Islamists, especially the Somalis whose livelihoods they choked off.

 

Deqo Afrah, another Mogadishu-based party planner, says business is booming again. She charges about $200 for most weddings, which includes applying the henna, the red dye used to decorate the bride's skin.

 

"I organise at least two or three weddings per week," she said. "I am very busy, unlike during the Islamic Courts' rule. People can now party freely. It is good for business."

 

Standing nearby wearing heavy make-up and a flowing semi-transparent gown, her fellow planner Omar heartily agrees.

 

"Nobody had the guts to dress like this," she said with a laugh. "We were unhappy and bored. I hope the Islamic Courts do not hear me and come for my head!"

[ZOLA]

i am seriously thinking of becaming a wedding planner in Mogadishu...)

[Jacaylbaro]

looooooool ,,, why ???

 

you find it interesting ???

[ZOLA]

not only interesting but there is also a lot of money to be made.. 3 wedding a week..thats 12 in a month. we r talking about serious profits my friend. r u interested in becaming business partners?

[Jacaylbaro]

Hmmmmmmmm ,,,,, let's do that

 

For the moment i'm only interested in making $$$

[ZOLA]

we r on then. i will do some research and get back to you soon..

[Jacaylbaro]

Deal .........

[rudy-Diiriye]

there are somali wedding planners! where were they when i needed one...

[Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar]

Guuleed Max'ed wax uu soo warbixiyo ayuu waaye miyaa mise his Reuters superiors at London want these kind of things argently reported now?

 

War meeshiiba nolol ma taalee maxaa wedding planers keenay? Maalin walba maatadda la iska dilaayo, la iska dhacaayo, la iska xiraayo, ee xoriyad maashee markaas?

 

And Soomaali wedding planers? Since when did we have them?

 

Mise habartii meel dad ka ijaareyso ama cilaan saareyso are wedding planers? Soomaalida cannot even plan shir muhiim ah oo yar xataa ay iskugu imaadaan, let alone guur ama aroos xafladeed.

[Jacaylbaro]

Soomaalida cannot even plan shir muhiim ah oo yar xataa ay iskugu imaadaan, let alone guur ama aroos xafladeed.

looooooooooool

[Curly]

Damn you JB I was about to post the very same post, but I thought I'd check if it wasn't done already.

 

I loved to be a wedding planner the whole thing is very exciting but for $200 no thank you! How on god's green earth would you manage that?

[Buuxo]

War meeshiiba nolol ma taalee maxaa wedding planers keenay? Maalin walba maatadda la iska dilaayo, la iska dhacaayo, la iska xiraayo, ee xoriyad maashee markaas?

true , when all of that is happening, more and more are wanting to get married.As it could be the last time they have such an opportunity to wed and leave some offsprings.

[Wigad]

Isnt Men and Women dancing with each other in public haraam, or am i mistaken i thought this was something every one knew and not just the "EXTRIMEST, HARDLINERS," some of you guys act like there is no JUDGMENT DAY. and that day the only ruler will be allah.

 

 

may allah guide US to the right path

[Curly]

Khalid you are obviously right but there is a big difference between practicing this yourself and enforcing it on others. For example these people stopped dancing and partying when the IC was around as they feared being discovered by them, but we all know they should stop for the sake of Allah and their deen. You may argue that in an Islamic state these laws would have been enforced but who declares an Islamic state and do the people have a say over it when it’s an Islamic state that has took over rather than been elected to power?