Che -Guevara Posted August 30, 2009 LOL@Cara I just find out through reliable sources inaan laba odey kala tirsano. I think we are good match.Let's help each other out, what's you say. I mean genetic diversity is good and all, but think of the children fatboy-I think reestablishing a relationship with husband/wife and winning their confidence, and doing so without malice would be the best way to go. International custody cases are not easy even if you do have a powerful government willing to go court on your behalf. There are many examples of American parents whose foreign espouses snatched their kids never to be seen. There's little if any the US government could do.Here's prefect example. In this particular instance, one would think since the mom died, the kid automatically go to the next of kin. Any court in the world should ideally hand over the kid to his father. I would advise not to go down that route. Just reengage the husband/wife, establish some sort of relationship and build confidence.Then try to reason with them and make them think about the welfare of the kids. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zakinah Posted August 30, 2009 Subxannallah its a hard sitituation to be in, may allah make it easy for you.....Gr8 reminder to those brothers/sisters thinking abt going into interace marriages...I have seen so many sisters throwing themselves into converts, and within a yr or so being divorced with children ...Marriage is an important part of life and we need to becareful! I am not saying marry a FARAH and u its all rosey, but atleast hadaad is qabatiin ninkaan somaliga ah dad kaa ceyshto waa la yaqaan.Laakin halkee baan u doonaa John's family aabihiisba ma yaqaanee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted August 30, 2009 ^I think the reasons those marriages end is "throwing themselves" part. I mean, honey put up some fight, xoogaa sanka taagta and play some mind games. Atleast make me believe, I'm just happy or grateful to have you. Hadii kale waa easy come, easy go. *Cara takes note* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted August 30, 2009 Originally posted by Mr. Somalia: Fatboy , I don't know what you did, but it's all your fault to let her leave in the first place and therefore, you do not deserve to have the kids back. Now move on! Get yourself a new wife and start another family-- and make sure this time around she does not leave you! How did u come to such conclusion! ... From your writing, none can understand how could u come to such a conclusion sxb iska hadal looma hadlo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zakinah Posted August 30, 2009 Che- waa runtaa walee, uff naag raqiis ah yaa rabo :rolleyes: laakin waa sual oo maxeey iyaantaan gabdhaheena ku faleen nimaka indha bluega leh....if its indha haas cad cad i say contacts u galiya Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted August 30, 2009 ^LooooL@contacts, that would be interesting experiment, and perhaps spray my hair or I should say all my hair blond Laakin shaqo waaye yaaka bixi kara taas.I just realised even our brother Mr. Cadaan changed his nick into indho blue . I was confusing him indhoos the other way. I guess waxii cusub caalan jecel, but no worries there will be retro look soon, and Farahs would be back. If that doesn't work I could fit my kid with blue eyes We are hijacking the thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted August 30, 2009 ^^sankaan iyo wale indho blue ah ineeysan israaci karin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abaay Heylay Posted August 30, 2009 ^^^Looooooooool, you never know anyone with sankaas can get blue eyes, it wouldn't go with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Indhoos Posted August 31, 2009 ^^Of course they can go together, I mean look at that, hypnotizing... As for the issue at hand...Stay connected with the kids, make sure to support them, call them, and be civil to the mother.Insha-allah when they are old enough, they will come and find you...unless mom poisons their mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FatB Posted August 31, 2009 North: g'day, too hot for footy here.. mr somalia: its always the fault of the losing party as it stands - though am curious possessive much? arch: its one dimensional and cynical to generalize based on one case Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baluug Posted August 31, 2009 Originally posted by Arac: ^Forget marrying someone of another nation, I would advise people against marrying someone of another tribe. My foolish aunty married someone of another clan just before the war broke out. They had to divorce of course, ilmaha aabahood baa kaxaystay, and we never saw our little cousins again If your potential spouse doesn't share 25% of your genes and your future offspring won't be blessed with extra toes, DON'T even think about a union with this shisheeye. Crap. *retracts marriage proposal* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted August 31, 2009 ^ It's for your own good IB. Don't you want to pass on the family ears? LOL @ Che. Nice try, mister. I've done some extensive background checks, and frankly I'm horrified. It seems that your family has not had a single first-cousin marriage for three generations! There's even a very good chance you don't have webbed feet, or three nostrils :eek: *Shudders and clings to scaly cousin, with siamese twin looking on* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
