YoniZ Posted September 2, 2007 There is an immense difficulties finding a reasonable and at the sametime ready-for-commitment individual(both genders ofcourse) in whole UK. If you are educated in your mid/late 20s and don't want give-in to the family choice temptation, there is a sense of powerless and frustration all the time. However, that doesnt mean to give-up looking for your choice. The worst case-scenario is, to end-up in a kind of frustration/protest marriage. Good luck to anyone in the same boat. :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted September 2, 2007 They all moved to Canada...lol BadaCas, shukaansi101 lee iga dheh...Shuqulak Shuqulag... NB, you're still young, so what if there isn't a guy who meets your standards in London...If you stop looking so hard, he might be right under your nose... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Hi Everyone, This goes out to ROOBLEH.. Walalo you dont know 2 s***s about me so Im just baffled how you think Im confused or wotnot. I couldnt DISAGREE more with what you said below "You seem someone who wants to settle down soon but is unable to choose whom she wants to marry without the approval of her friends. " a)I said I aint looking for marriage or anything, my post was merely stating that there arent any normal/good brothas left b)I cant believe you assumed I wouldnt be with someone my friends disaprove of.. gimme a break.. come 2 think of it my friends always disaprove of the ppl I get 2 know.. that never stopped me, I live my life 4 me and not others thank u! You seem a bit weird mostly because you are amused at my statement that I will never go for a guy younger than me or even coupla months older .. Thats my personel choice and probably evry woman on this planets choice 2 (who in their right mind would be with a young guy?) HELL NO!! You really cracked me up @ I need 2 address some "issues" just because I want a guy a bit older, thats just the STANDARD so get used it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Originally posted by Resistance: while u girls have issues with limited choice we the brothers have issues with too much ( not being too arrogant ) but sometimes get to know more than one sister means is hard to settle 4 one and therefore u end upsetting all of them, so u move on the routine just reapeats itself. serious u meet one sister then another comes along who makes u realise hang on there is other qualities , sometimes u just wanna take pits and peaces from 4 sisters and creat ur own version. P.S I Resistance, I couldnt agree more.. there are too, too many somali girls in london Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Umm Zakaria.. I know.. Im sure he just took a wrong turn, probably does know which "corner" he's supposed 2 turn.. chubacka are you serious? I have met 2 guys younger than me (one was 2 months and the other 5 months) and both were drop dead gorgeous! But after finding out their ages I was put off and cut all contact.. 1 even lied 2 me saying he's 1 year older! -Serenity- lol I've lived in london practically all ma life and lets just say theres isnt an end of london I havent reached (u kno 4 work, studying , socialising reasons! hey- I live here remember!!!!! lol) Anyways I do not see any mali brothers 2 be honest and the ones I see r lil kids .. where on earth did u spot them @?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Originally posted by Kool_Kat: They all moved to Canada...lol NB, you're still young, so what if there isn't a guy who meets your standards in London...If you stop looking so hard, he might be right under your nose... lOL@ Canada.. Imma come over there next summer inshallah.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharmarkee Posted September 3, 2007 ^^Hey Noami B, am from Bristol, and hey pretty young guns are all over here, let me introduce you this young chap sitting next to me right now, as we sipping coffee in Doqon-Mawaaye teaShop. his name called Dhurrwa, pretty classy guy and geniune too, Did I mention too ... he cuts a pretty good figure, he is about 25, just graduated recently from the university of hard knocks. What you say gal? i will put on the bus straightaway to Hammersmith and take him over, you will gonna give me a call if he is a good cargo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Lol send him straight to Wood Green .. Whats wrong with you? R you Bold , Broke or both?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharmarkee Posted September 3, 2007 ^^How dare you say u know london well, FyI, buses from bristol come to Hammersmith/Earl's court enroute to victoria station. gosh the girl dont have a clue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naomi_B Posted September 3, 2007 Yeah I aint got a CLUE about getting a bus 2... Bristol!! Come off it, I aint visiting no1 locked up there.. hence why you wont find me going there.. Another thing, I aint interested in a 25 yr old MAN getting a BUS or Coach, Uff Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharmarkee Posted September 3, 2007 ^^The guy lost his licence, but his personality is still intact, you cannot hate for a guy because he dont drive, what the world is coming to? he is good guy but public transport user,like the rest of us. come on, let us be serious Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2007 ^^^there must be something wrong with him, shaaqlaan first of all, he'd hop on bus for some chick in london based on the words of a friend, despardo Nomia B, when u reach a certain age.... age is nothing but a number, I've seen 30yrs olds playing with their pi*ss and i've seen 20yr old focused hard working kids... erm i mean men!. I'd take the 20yr old any day in this case :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Lily- Posted September 3, 2007 ^^^^ I'd take the 20yr old any day in this case Cradel-snatcher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2007 ^^^lool^^ He won't be complaining dear trust me on that one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted September 3, 2007 Originally posted by Naomi_B: Lol send him straight to Wood Green .. WG? Have you heard about the local Somali youth club? Word has it the youth workers there are MashaAllah, TabaarakAllah. [Edit] Honestly though, I'm seeing great sisters and brothers here in London. Yet, most are telling me that they can't find someone decent to settle with. I don't get it, is this a case of not finding the right person for you? :confused: There are many eligable brothers, in that age group, who are educated, decent, have a job etc.etc.etc. in London and everywhere and yes, they are single. It's the same for sisters, yet, I've heard many brothers say exactly what your saying now. Anyway, I'm saying that, it's not cool generalise. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
