inter-racial marriages

[A_Khadar]

[Narniah]

som-aussie chick 4 life;52069 wrote:

as-salamu alaikum

 

wat r ur ideas/views on inter-racial marriages.

 

i've a friend who wanted 2 get married 2 a lebanese bro but her dad refused sayin "somalis n arabs have nothin in common, i'll give u my blessings if u only marry a somali dude" etc, etc.

 

is this how all somali parents think?

 

would u marry some1 that does not come from the same nationality as u?

 

now we all know that islamically speakin inter-racial marriages r HALAL as long as the person u want 2 marry is muslim {except 4 broz since they r allowed 2 marry "the people of the book} rite? so y do somalis make such a BIG deal out of inter-racial marriages?

 

parents shud advice their daughters 2 marry a pious broz n not say somethin such as "i'll give u my blessings if u only marry or bring a somali man"

 

anyho, wat r ur ideas n point of views on this?

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with marrying out the race. I know many happily married couples who are in interracial marriages it's inspiring.

[Wadani]

Wats so inspiring about it narniah?

[Narniah]

Wadani;889481 wrote:

Wats so inspiring about it narniah?

Everything about it is^_^

[Che -Guevara]

Wadani;889481 wrote:

Wats so inspiring about it narniah?

They produce sweet caramel babies and Narniah wants to join the club:D

[DoctorKenney]

Talk about digging up an old topic.

 

That being said: The Somalis on this Forum should have a little more regard for their dhaqan and marry within their race. We already have enough problems as it is as a society, and if we start to marry foreigners, these problems would increase. Most Arabs would prefer to marry their own kind. Most Chinese would prefer to marry their own kind, and so should most Somalis. But then again, no one should be forced to marry someone they don't want to

[Narniah]

Che -Guevara;889485 wrote:

They produce sweet caramel babies and Narniah wants to join the club:D

Lol che, I'm actually a Vanila baby, so to produce a caramel baby I'd need dark chocolate:p. The only problem is I don't seem to have much in common with chocolates.

 

Hmm who knows what the future holds.

[israa]

som-aussie chick 4 life;52069 wrote:

anyho, wat r ur ideas n point of views on this?

Nothing wrong with it, but it's not for me. My grandmother warned me against marrying a foreigner, and I doubt anyone from my father's side will allow such a thing either. Tis the drama of xenophobic families

[oba hiloowlow]

*isra*;916010 wrote:

Nothing wrong with it, but it's not for me. My grandmother warned me against marring a foreigner, and I doubt anyone from my father's side will allow such a thing either. Tis the drama of xenophobic families

Your family is 100% right. We must protect the Somali genes since its recessive.

[Xaaji Xunjuf]

i don't think races should mix

[israa]

oba hiloowlow;916015 wrote:

Your family is 100% right. We must protect the Somali genes since its recessive.

I did not know that. Plus it would mean my kids would be foreigners in my homeland.

[Xaaji Xunjuf]

^^ Do you have frenji boyfriend?

[Haatu]

Oba, is it really recessive and what's the proof?

 

XX is a racist as well

 

In all seriousness though, I don't understand why marrying outside the race is inspirational. Yes, I'm talking to you Miss I'm Vanilla

 

PS: why is Che in every one of these topics

[Xaaji Xunjuf]

Not really i have black friends.

[Che -Guevara]

I could ask you the samething Haatu.