AdivA Posted September 19, 2005 Salam, All the advice here is very handy and appreciative. I know I definately have a problem with speaking to strangers and some people think I'm stuck up and rude...that is until they get to know me All in all...just relax and let loose..just a little bit..not too much and remember people are just people...not things that are out there to get ya Peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
N.O.R.F Posted September 19, 2005 Now, now, speaking to strangers doesnt prove anything, why speak to someone on a bus or train? Just to be able to say your not shy? Speak to who you need to speak to, at home, work, post office, bank, shops etc etc but ask them how there day is, be polite, strike a conversation, have a joke wherever possible, thank them then move on, life is a bliss Just yesterday i saw someone wearing a Juventus Football (soccer) shirt (Italian team), he happened to from Turin, Italy. We talked about football (as you do) i told him i was a LIverpool fan , he acknowledged our win against them (he was at Anfield) and their arch rivals AC Milan, then the topic went onto what hes doing in the ME (network engineer for telecom firm) and there you have it, a quick conversation in a shop while we were waiting for the Idian shop keeper to get something from the store. :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cindrella Posted September 19, 2005 Being shy is good in certian point,but you cant be always shy from everything and everybody.You'll never success in the real world if you are extremely shy person.People will bascially shit on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Armz_23 Posted September 19, 2005 lollll@ "best way to over come shyness: walk,feel, and believe you're hot. *DO NOT over do it*". I found this Hellerious dude. Me personally, the most effective way that i do overcome this so-called shyness is to take a deep breath and put on one of my deadliest smile that fools the nation. little do they know about this "farax's history. In many occasion i have realised that what most malies (somalis) do lack is the importance of sunshine smile in their daily face. No wonder why our blessed/beloved prophets recommend us to smile all the tyme. so the real lesson that we have to learn here is to put glowing face, LYKE THE SUN RISE y'll. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar Posted September 20, 2005 Salaan... Shyness (xishoodnimo) is one of the most underrated human traits. It is a personal virtue most people overlook. Being and having a moderate shyness in your character is a gift, and one should be thankful for that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
