Aaliyyah Posted December 23, 2008 ^^am sure love exists without getting intimate. Those who think love is just getting intimate, are the ones who usually get divorced...love is deeper than that or so I hope dear sister p.s. there's such thing as halaal dating...you can get to know a brother while drawing the line and making sure you don't do anything unislamic. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted December 23, 2008 lol@say walaahi .. I don't like 'cheesy' proposals laakin the brother was so creative intaasba hadu isla helay Kuwo ayaa isdhahao abaayo waqtiga waa nagu socdaaye weysado hadaan isku dhoorano kawaran Although I do have a cute story about a friend's proposal - she walked into her house on Valentine's day and found a rose on the doormat and a trail of rose petals, which she followed through the house and out onto the terrace where her boyfriend was waiting on one knee. ) Lovely. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 23, 2008 ^^^^that is kind of spooky. Aaliya: who said anything about intimate :confused: I asked how one can be expected to love you completely without knowing you fully and while staying within the allow limits (i.e. only speaking to you infront of your wali, hence severely limiting freedom of speech) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted December 23, 2008 lol@ waqtigu wuu nagu socdaa looooooool ta ogolaata ka daran ma istidhi.. It's ok to go out with a brother in a public place..and as long as you both are religious and know your limit inshallah everything will work out.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 23, 2008 ^^IS that your view or the diin? if the diin, please send me the evidence, I need it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted December 23, 2008 am sure Allah swt knows our intentions and if they are pure, a wali wouldnt make much of a difference... salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ducaysane Posted December 23, 2008 Waan isku dhacnaye Insuranceka ma kala qoranaa sidaas qof lagu guursadey ma jiraa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted December 23, 2008 looooooooooooooooool ducaysane Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 23, 2008 Aaah I thought you was going to give me some solid evidence from the diin, rather than your thought. W/salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted December 23, 2008 lol ibti I will look it up....bt "alacmaalu biniyaat" which roughly translates everything is based on our intentions... what harm can come out of just talking to someone while drawing the line.... anyhow you want a prove i will look it up...see if i can find anything salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 23, 2008 ^^If you can that would be great Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baluug Posted December 23, 2008 A thread full of women talking about marriage proposals, this shoiuld turn out to be interesting I'm guessing we might soon have to change the title to "unrealistic expectations" As for me, I don't remember how I proposed, but it wasn't like DD's experience, nor was it like Aaliyah's expectation(chuckle), but somewhere in the middle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biixi Posted December 23, 2008 At Olive Garden after she finished her Tiramisu! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pujah Posted December 23, 2008 I got a ring in a banana split ice cream - don't know how he got the DQ employee to put it in there - it was totally unexpected and so romantic. Sadly we never got married. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted December 23, 2008 ^I don't know why you said no to me. I'm still waiting for an explanation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
