Hire the cryer

[Ms DD]

Hire the cryer

 

The tradition of hiring crying women at funerals they say goes back to a time when some families didn’t have any mourners. For them, a good crying woman made up the numbers, and also made up for the lack of tears at a death in the family. But, as the crying women became better, entire castes in entire villages took up the job.

 

Saturday, June 23, 2007

LBE

 

Certain parts of Negombo are known for a different kind of performer at funerals: the ladies who cry for the buckshee.

 

Women were formerly supposed to express their grief by crying at funerals. Some criers could be hired in some places. They were called crying women, who cried according to the order and paid in remuneration. They cried at the coffin, in the procession, and at the grave. The manner of crying as well as the words they were supposed to say while crying were more or less set patterns.

 

The tradition of hiring crying women at funerals they say goes back to a time when some families didn’t have any mourners. For them, a good crying woman made up the numbers, and also made up for the lack of tears at a death in the family. But, as the crying women became better, entire castes in entire villages took up the job.

 

Emalin has cried at hundreds of funerals where she says she had no idea what kind of person the corpse had been in life: big, strong, fat, ugly or obnoxious. But above all she says, she is a professional. She gets paid for a good cry, and it not easy. She has to get into the mood. That’ why she charges by the hour.

 

“It must be a tough job to keep on crying,’’ I say, but her answer is that most families want the crying to be turned up at certain specific times. For example, a good breast beating cry may be necessary when an important man such as a Minister of a Mayor drops in at the funeral house. At such times, the chief mourner usually signals to her colleagues to ratchet up the wailing, and they start tearing up - - then wail shriek and howl to a crescendo. The visitor is usually so unhinged by too much of this reality, that he ends up offering some charity. “I will erect a marble statue of your father close to the Town Hall,’’ the Mayor might say. As a Mayor he might not know it. But sometimes, it does pay to turn the tap on.

[-Lily-]

LoooooooL Miss D&D, this is so funny. Reminds me of that Mastercard add, for everything else there is Mastercard .

 

Thank goodness that its unislamic to wail at funerals anyway.

[Ibtisam]

^^^You will end up crying anyway, it is one of those things I cannot explain, one person startes crying and it starts everyone off, but I guess there is a big difference between wailing and crying.

 

P.s. It is so sad that people making a living out of this, and that people hire them :mad: because they cannot/ will not express emotions. :rolleyes:

[Ms DD]

I can think few of SOLERS who would be great for this kinda job. They already are cry-babies..they might as well get paid for it!

 

You can tell Ramadaan is over

[-Serenity-]

^dadkaad daan-daan saneysid iska daa.

[Ms DD]

This is not daandaansi my dear. It is fuduulis.

[Ms DD]

This is not daandaansi my dear. It is fuduulis.