A.Lula Posted November 23, 2020 How do you move on and learn to trust again after 2 divorces and kids? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted November 23, 2020 Therapy, introspection, learn how to be single again, and be there for the kids. They should not suffer for their parent's mistakes. And if you are a person of faith, study, practice, and live by it, but don't go in deep. Life needs balance. Finally, surround yourself with good people if possible. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A.Lula Posted November 23, 2020 Thanks , everything I agree with except the 'don't go in deep' regarding the faith. It can never be deep enough and I think if we actually tried hard enough to go in deep and connect with Allah sw like He deserves, I wouldn't even be posting my rant, hehe. I understand where you were coming from though. Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it. A.Lula Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar Posted November 24, 2020 Sad to hear this, sister. Hope and wish best for the future. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sheikhonderun Posted April 18, 2021 We are muslims. Whatever pain or suffering you have endured is not in vain. You will be compensated for it inshAllah in hereafter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dhagax-Tuur Posted May 31, 2021 First they trash their men, and then calaacal begins. Treat your men like kings, if there's an iota of decency in the man, he should treat you like a queen in return. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
