Katrina Posted March 18, 2006 makalajabti if you haven't already read "Women and Gender in Islam" by Leila Ahmed plzzzzzzzzz do!! I think you'd luv it, parts of it will blow your mind...polygomy, the first Islamic society, Abbasid period, the establishment of Islamic law, women in jahilia, adoption of cultural practices into Islam and much more. Aaaaaah, a must read. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted March 20, 2006 Originally posted by Scarlet: ^Have you talked to her about it? Yes, I asked her, and she said she can't be sure they won't sleep around when they are teens. The thing is, I wouldn't be surprised. She's the most indifferent, hands-off mom I've ever seen. She doesn't talk to her kids unless she's screaming at them. She spends more time talking on the phone than interacting with her 4 year old. She ships them off to her mother every summer. The kids have terrible manners, no self-discipline and little incentive to look after themselves. They will sleep around when they grow older, because they are desperately starved for attention. But since she's mutilated her daughters, that's supposed to protect them from making mistakes. What did she/the girls say about it? Thats horrible! To be honest I couldn't bring it up with the girls; I don't have the heart to ask them and then just mind my own business. Argh... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Castro Posted March 20, 2006 Originally posted by Cara: She's the most indifferent, hands-off mom I've ever seen. She doesn't talk to her kids unless she's screaming at them. She spends more time talking on the phone than interacting with her 4 year old. She ships them off to her mother every summer. The kids have terrible manners, no self-discipline and little incentive to look after themselves. They will sleep around when they grow older, because they are desperately starved for attention. Since it's customary around here to bash deadbeat Faaraxs, it is important to lambast, just as severely, Xalimos of the type mentioned above. Though not as great in numbers as their male counterparts, the potential damage caused by their failed motherhood is far more devestating than just what an absentee father could cause alone. A failed mother is a failed family. Cara, I'd (anonymously ) report her behind to CPS, if I were you. You don't want shit like this on your conscience for decades to come. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted March 21, 2006 That's true, Castro. But I don't want to separate kids from their mom, as awful as she is. That'd also be on my conscience for decades. I have a very strong inhibition when it comes with meddling with other people's kids. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abaadir Posted March 22, 2006 Inkastoo uusan topic ninweyn ahayn hadana...... anyone here think that FGM deter women having pre-marital affairs? …But I agree it is bad and primitive practice and has to be stopped. I would NOT allow anyone do this to my daughter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RendezVous Posted March 22, 2006 ^Thanks for elaboration ..I will NEVER insha-allah but still will give my daughter enough sex and relationship studies in compatible with Islam, quraan and Sunnah Now let us switch the topic to the circumcision on Boys It is another FGM... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted March 22, 2006 Originally posted by The Flipmode: Now let us switch the topic to the circumcision on Boys It is another FGM... Do you know what the "F" in "FGM" stands for? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Socod_badne Posted March 22, 2006 Originally posted by Cara: quote:Originally posted by The Flipmode: Now let us switch the topic to the circumcision on Boys It is another FGM... Do you know what the "F" in "FGM" stands for? Of course he does, you're not giving due credit here. F stands for: Flipmode. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
