SCORPION_SISTA Posted April 8, 2002 I found this interesting hopefully u guyz will like it too: There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most. & gave her nothing but the best. He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men!! He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patientand in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times. Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her. One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!" Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep my company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold. He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated. Then a voice called out:"I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go!!" The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition.Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!" Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives... The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die. Our 3rd wife, is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave. The 1st wife is in fact our soul. Often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our death-bed to lament. Think about it................. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted April 8, 2002 That is deep sista! thanx for sharing..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted April 8, 2002 that was really good.....thnx sis..but u know what i will not let my body or my possessions or my family...or my soul how about if I am fair to them all...then it works right?? ------------------ Each one of us is a masterpiece in progress Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
terrorist Posted April 9, 2002 Assalamu allaikum Most profound thought i read ever on this forum. may Allah reward you for it wasalam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted April 9, 2002 So true, we humans tend to neglect reality. Great topic. Terrorist? Whats up with the name mate? Am sure u don't want an FBI knocking at your door. As you know Every1 is pretty much 2 sensitive about the name, better change it before its too late. Just a suggestion. God Bless. ------------------ Live today to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRUTH-SHALL-SET-U-FREE Posted June 11, 2003 This seemed like interesting lesson and thought to bring it up again. whatever happened to the poster? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ayaan8321 Posted June 11, 2003 That was deep walaahi....thanx for sharing it with us sis.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gediid Posted June 11, 2003 Thought provoking Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted June 11, 2003 Very nice! Thanks for sharing it with us. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adna Posted June 11, 2003 Salaams That was a wonderfull piece it really touched me how nice it's thanks sis for sharing with us move lov to ya'll Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
