The Crisis of Masculinity

[cynical lady]

loooooooooool@ GJ

[cynical lady]

loooooooooool@ GJ

[Che -Guevara]

LooooooooooooL@GJ....Sometimes waxaan fiican jabkaaga iska qarso, it wasn't in dark room so I'm pretty sure it was him.

[Ms DD]

Che

The image of masculinity I had in mind..flew thru the window! lool

[Ibtisam]

Che, i'm dissapointed, inta lagu qabtay ba sunaya laga xiray, r u sure it was the barber

HAHAHAH Loooooooooooooooooooooooool Hehehe

[Ibtisam]

Che, i'm dissapointed, inta lagu qabtay ba sunaya laga xiray, r u sure it was the barber

Loooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[Ibtisam]

Che, i'm dissapointed, inta lagu qabtay ba sunaya laga xiray, r u sure it was the barber

HAHAHAH Loooooooooooooooooooooooool Hehehe

[Che -Guevara]

LoooooooooooL@DD...come on dee, one gotta have guts to share that.

[NGONGE]

Done before.

 

I'm just waiting for A&T to reply to either topic.

[Legend of Zu]

Seriously...nin raganimo ayaa la igu haystaa leh asaa meel xun is dhigay... waar tanoo kale yaa arkay oo maqlay!

 

Bal kaalay igula dhag raganimodayda!!

 

dadkaan westernka ah oo lagu soo caan baxay aa rabaan hadda sharci inay nooga dhigaan calaacalkooda... Ka kaca idhaahda!

 

waa idinkaa hadde!

 

Jiiris

[Queen Arawello]

Originally posted by Mr. Gello:

Are men becoming more feminine?

 

I actually believe men are becoming more feminine. This is completely unacceptable and may well signal the end of the man race. The freedom and independence of women in the west has had serious consequences for what it means to be a man. Now a days, men are being coerced into becoming the less dominant partner in the relationship. The man no longer has the authority, he once held.

 

Whatsmore, all these meterosexual men are a disgrace to the man race. They are so fluid in these appearance and behaviour its difficult to indentify their sexuality.

 

There is nothing wrong, with a man helping out at the kitchen and looking after his children but all these educated, liberal women have destroyed the man sense of self. They want a man who has emotions, is weak and dependent on them.

 

A man should be a man, without feeling pressured to conform to female authority.

 

Mr. Gellorino

I Like you aLready!...

[Blessed]

Raganimoy, ninkaagi nac*asnimo maxaa baday..

 

What maalaayacni, wax isku fal nimanyow oo cabaadka naga joojiya.. :rolleyes:

[Mr. Gello - The proud Soma]

I see alot of ideas have been suggested but the fact is my original premise remains unchallenged. Somali men are becoming more feminine and are being coerced into becoming the 'New Man'.

 

Rather than finding holes in my premise, you need to acknowledge and understand that the wider society is going through a rapid transformation. Where the boundaries are blurred and no longer scared.

 

Somali people, shouldnt follow these western discourses. However I find somali woman in particular are more prone to following these notions of hyper-femininity and they consquently try to exercise their new found independence over their fellow counterparts.

 

Educated and liberated Somali woman should understand that we have a different cultural system and should therefore protect and safe-guard our identity and hertiage.

 

Peace

 

Mr. Gellorino

[Che -Guevara]

^Things evolve-either evolve too or risk dying out.

[Mr. Gello - The proud Soma]

if Evolving means surrending my raganimo then i would rather become extinct. Midda Kale, The school of thought i hail from has long died, despite various attempts to flex our muscles.