valish Posted May 22, 2002 How hard is it for you to find your equal Somalian brother? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted May 28, 2002 Not hard at all. Hard bit is fighting off (not literally, mind you ....) all those aggressive xaliimos No, honestly there are a lot of fine, educated decent ..etc..etc. brothers out there, U just gota know how to deal with their oversized egos. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with an egocentric type of dude, it's when they show unease with your over sized egos that they begin to annoy me. And those agressive xalimos too lol (my, have sisters changed) May be you should move city ..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted May 28, 2002 I don't know coz I haven't really looked. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyMo Posted May 28, 2002 valish is depends on where u look! A gr8 tip especially 4 u Try an educational institute! Kind Regards ExDane Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pujah. Posted May 29, 2002 I didn't know they were hard to find...thought they were everywhere I looked seriously though it shouldn't be too hard once i'm ready to look for that "future mate" cuz there are alot of brothers that are educated or in the process of educating themeselves Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Missy Posted May 30, 2002 I personally find it hard to find a nice young educated brotha....maybe im looking in the wrong places but all the guys I meet are more interested in raving than getting an education, they dont realise that soon they will have a wife and children depending on them and that driving a cab is not gonna put enough food on the table. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A7LA-SHU Posted May 30, 2002 not hard at all but there isn't many thou.. guys i'm not saying u guys are not educated don't get me wrong but. there is mostly lil boys just growing and all.. but as one of u said i'll look when i'm ready for the mr right.. but mansha'allah we have kool and understanding guys. and as the year go they are changing for the best which is great.. and yeah if u educated sista it shouldn't be hard to find good guys coz nowadays no guy that i know of is looking for uneducated ladies.. so educated sistas like u ladies here got the market make the best of it lol.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashwaq Posted May 30, 2002 lol@ Ameenah, You know you are so right about their ego! my godness I swear they are so selfcentered and so egotistic I sometimes wonder why they even bother to look for a woman. normally man look for a woman to love and care for him. Here these guys are so much inlove with themselves you want to say hey there no room for me in you life, come back when you are in need of a company. To answer Velishs question, I stopped looking after I keep meeting either jealous obsessive guys or selfcentered egomaniacs. I am loving every minute of my siglehood walaahi I don't know how I will ever deal with a man Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hanna Posted May 31, 2002 lol @ Ameenah and Ashwaq you guys are right about their overrated egos, though I like some sort of confidence in a man, it maddens me when it turns into an exasperated egotism, like Ashwaq I wonder why they even bother. To answer the poster's question, I'm not on the look-out as of yet, but I can imagine it being mission impossible Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pujah Posted January 6, 2007 Does this problem still exist? what is your take ladies? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hayat Posted January 6, 2007 i don't think that i would classify it hard, seing as i personally see everyone for their worth. But the only thing that makes it so hard is that being on the upper level just somethings distorts your image and you really can not see brothers for who they truly are. don't get me wrong we don't(well i don't) think i am all that an above but there is something flawed if you don't see things in the same manner or you can't see eye-to-eye. Even when you don't care about their level of education they feel a sense of intimadation however unexplicit. don't get me worng there will always be that gap despite it being big or small. on the other hand education is not merely being book smart, there are brothers who have knowledge~overlooking the fact that they have not had the so called "education". the hard part depends on which way you sway your boat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted January 8, 2007 It depends on the university really, but in good universities The guys that make it to higher education (Degree, Masters etc) are normally nerdy and not the best of looking. Some are so shy they walk into the wall when they see ya! (that might because they are religious though) lool. They are also mummy's boy sorry boredom is getting to me this morning , no offence to anyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biixi Posted January 8, 2007 Depends on your age...embryos are not forever you know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted January 8, 2007 "Depends on your age...embryos are not forever you know. " was this meant to go somewhere else Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted January 8, 2007 Yes at your clinic thread Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
