First date conversation no-no's

[Crystal_Clear]

What not to talk about on a first date:

 

• "Diseases or illnesses, obsessive behavior, friends in jail."

 

• "Exes."

 

• "Medical problems that mean he can't have children. (It happened. Honest.)"

 

• "Bodily functions."

 

• "Details about failed personal relationships."

 

• "How much you hate your family."

 

• "How you were dumped by all your former girlfriends."

 

• "Politics, religion or sexuality." (Jeez, tough customer.)

 

• "Family problems."

 

• "Your favorite sexual positions."

 

• "Past boyfriends, past dates, dead cats, negative ideas."

 

• "Cars. Some guys can talk about their goddamn vehicle for hours." (I hear ya, Unless you're a car freak too, car talk is boring!)

 

• "How much money you make or spend."

 

• "Financial difficulties."

 

• "How I should run my life, according to you!"

[nemo]

LooooL serious some of these things I would not talk about to someone I am dating (not that I am now cos education is first for me)....do people actaully discuss this in a first date...woooow

would never talk about:

1. "Bodily functions."

2. "Medical problems that mean he can't have children. (It happened. Honest.)"

3. "How much you hate your family." (I dont cos LOVE them to bits)

4. "Family problems." (dont really have one)

5. "Your favorite sexual positions." (freaked me out)

I could go for long but thats the worst I think

[Ibtisam]

Crystal_Clear:

 

you've been on some mean dates cars and money i've heard, like they wanna add you to their collection and buy you :mad:

Your favorite sexual positions << deserves a slap to timbuck2. Did you say first date, he best not even dream about asking me that at any date!

• "How I should run my life, according to you!"

[Khalaf]

Did you say first date, he best not even dream about asking me that at any date!

 

And u best not be going on dates little girl :mad: . Peace

[Ibtisam]

^^sorry granddad.

[nemo]

Khalaf and IB I have to ask this to help my curiosity but is there something going on with you two that I dont know about....I am new but am not blind, you guys are always every where replying to each other-----------now come on dont hurt me just answer as truthly as you can

[Ibtisam]

^^^ lool how dare you. not that i know off. never seen him before, till today.

 

p.s. nameless; the cost is clear for you,

[nemo]

IB sis....am not looking for anyone here just to learn my language and share ideas with follow somali's.....thats all serious

Anywaz I had a long day and tomorrow is Uni so laterz sis.....getting sleepy now

[Khalaf]

looool nameless . Can't help it she bugs me Peace

[Ibtisam]

^^^ i do? really!; good

[Khalaf]

^^^Why is that good ?

 

p.s. nameless; the cost is clear for you,

 

Hey i am not some type of meat that is to be thrown around by u little girls, I have morals and pride damn it.

 

PS: I am getting tired of chasing u around, stop buggin me little girl :mad: Peace out

[Ibtisam]

^^^ i'm older than you, so behave and stop being such farah.

you would be lucky of nameless even looked your way.

 

p.s. have you no self control? stop yourself. farahs these days (shakes head)

[Khalaf]

lool, your older then me? how do u know that, calling me immature :mad: . Besides don't worry, I prefer somali girlz not arabiya

 

As for nameless she doesn't even have name :confused: , she is a nameless chick most have name first to be taken seriously.

 

Not look my way what makes u so sure, lady I am a Sultan of looks no doubt. Peace

 

And I can control myself, I got nothing better do- at work infront of computer, so bring it I can bother u all day

[Ibtisam]

^^in that case i think i'm going get a mod to block you from SOL

Maybe she has a name she just does not want to tell you! And who said pretty boys were attractive anyway :rolleyes:

 

No I just did few calculations, and your age worked out to be: still in nappies, baby bottles and cereals. sorry could not resist

[RedSea]

assalamu calaykum,

 

First date? what a joke, who ever goes on a date? this must be the end of this planet's time expand; the xalimos and Farah's going on date, I am asking for what? What happened to the old traditional way where the guy goes up the girl's family and asks for permision to get marry to their daughter? going on a date is a stolen property, stolen without the permision of the owner. Please come back to the old ways,our ways.

 

 

I will tell you what not to do or what things to avoid.

 

Never go out on date to non other than your husband, if you aren't married never go on date with a guy.

Never be alone with some guy or girl in place.

Never stare deep in the eye of a girl or a boy.

Never touch a girl or a boy whom is outside of your relatives without a marriage.

If you are girl, never go outside without your full body armor (Hijab), and if you are a guy never go out with the ambition to see a girl.

 

Assalamu calaykum.