Malika Posted September 3, 2008 ^This was an Iranian documentary,it was heartbreaking but funny too.They were so open about the maritual status and how their needs are neglected..I was more shocked when one of them sent a friend to go get her a potion to make him love her more[witchcraft],one going to a shrine of an imman to pray for a child..it was rather an interesting lives they lead. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2008 ^^^Interesting you say...That is creepy.! Me thinks, Allah is punishing them for their witchcraft and crazy practises and not following Islam. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted September 3, 2008 Perhaps we should look at why they had to marry. Were they literally forced or left with no choice by a rubbish family. To many women its an escape, better be married to this man, than stay in your families home, where you are seen as a burden. Pity walahi. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted September 3, 2008 Malika, Myself and CL have an understanding. You and I can arrange our own deal too if you like. ps AAliyah is a special case. For now, she remains merely a beloved niece. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted September 3, 2008 Ngonge, :eek: Hayam,indeed pity. Oh,the other strange thing they did was to get their 2yr old married to the neighbours 3yr old..Lol that was something wallahi,the boy is promised to the girl and vice versa. Ibti,it was interesting really, a glimpse of what some womens lives are like how fortunate some of us are, with options and choices! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted September 3, 2008 I think that "for now" is the bravest thing you've ever said, Ngonge. Hello Trollers. Today I was planning to sleep in but forgot to turn off the alarm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted September 3, 2008 ^^ I know and you know she's not ready. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jamster Posted September 3, 2008 Sometime numerous options and choices are not the route to heppiness. Ngone, how was your turub session at the maqaayad? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2008 Ngonge that is beyond nasty! :mad: Akha tuu. :mad: Malika hmmm ok then. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted September 3, 2008 Originally posted by Fahiye: Sometime numerous options and choices are not the route to heppiness. If you don't know yourself, you could get lost. But for most, options and choices are a blessing. To be forced to do something, against your wishes is horrible. Malika balayo, I am starting to loose my sympathy for these women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted September 3, 2008 ^ ,it's okay in their world my dear,quite a norm they had sweets and dancing too!..Lol Is happiness an illusion? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2008 ^^^Loool @ losing your sympathy lol Too many options are no good, every time you make up your mind, you think oO maybe that one is better... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted September 3, 2008 Ibti, There you go reading things the wrong way, AGAIN. If it's any consolation, you're still not ready yourself (and I spent the longest time on you). Heh@Fahiye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted September 3, 2008 Now men can blame their genes for having a roving eye. Use it wisely Ngonge. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted September 3, 2008 Malika True happiness can be found, but you are looking in the wrong place if you look to other humans. Lool @ Cara, women stop giving them reasons. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
