Johnny B Posted October 22, 2009 CL, True that many marriages (most marriages if you like ) turn into duty-trap , but ideally speaking, is there an alternative to being couple with someone to develop together both individually and as a family in a mutually-friendly platform ? Emotional attraction , in terms of emotional connection. contracted relationship = ' caruur baan ku dhalaa ', as the sole duty of couplehood, and no emotional connection is neccessary. Contracting relationship is fine,( i still have my knull-kompisar freinds ) but it lacks spontanity and adventures. NGONGE & VAL , Stay away from me. You guys have have mastered the smell of your better ones's ambit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted October 22, 2009 ^^May be JB - the couple can add a clause saying an adventure trip per year is a must at least until they have the 10th Baby Whether mutually-friendly platform is agreed upon or emotional connections are made, relationships are give and take and with that comes the concept of contract whether you see it that way or not Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 22, 2009 marriage is over-rated, ignore all calls from habo and eedos. i think one (women in this instance) should sign away their lives if and when it becomes absolutely necessary. val welcome to the fold johnny is emotionally vacant himself, Ngonge is just bitter man Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted October 22, 2009 Correction, Juxa. I am never bitter but always grumpy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 22, 2009 my luqad waa iska limited ninyow, anyways why have not you got much to say ayaamahan? yaa kaa xanajiyay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted October 22, 2009 A guaranteed human blanket every night,what beats that?.. Marriage is wonderful,as long as you know the reason your in it,no need to get confused and expect miracles of the poor soul. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted October 22, 2009 Most? They all are. Marriage is nothing but a glossyfied, culturally endorsed prison. As for your question, the answer is yes and it’s called cohabitation. Jonny- how can an emotionally hallow man require emotional attractiveness? As for the rest you’re a funny man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paragon Posted October 22, 2009 ^Marriage is good. Trap him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted October 22, 2009 LoL...Johnny, yuuna NG isku kaaya dirin. Anyone seen Couples Retreat? Is it any good? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted October 22, 2009 Waa markii aad marriage ku waalan jirteen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 22, 2009 CL waala iga kaa soo doontay, despite your qalafsanaan, marka refrain from cohabitation ideas. lol@J11 Malika, we should be better ambassadors for the jail, eeh i mean the joy called marriage one half of your imaan, hala guursado asap Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted October 22, 2009 Nuune doob dareenba dilay ma maqashay ..qaboobana waa lagalay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted October 22, 2009 I did, it wasn’t bad nor good, and had its funny moment thanks to Vince Vaughn. I would watch almost anything with Vince init. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paragon Posted October 22, 2009 ^Lol@the joy they call marriage. Don't disappoint us, ladies. Waan soo maqiiqqan nahay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted October 22, 2009 FUFU qaboobaha heater alamiinto al suhaara aa loo haayaa abaabiina winter ma la arkaayo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites