cynical lady Posted November 17, 2009 the ‘vast majority of God-fearing’ ones??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted November 17, 2009 ^Practicing Muslims. Johnny B is seriously over compensating for something. One wonders...? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted November 17, 2009 And how do you know if a person is infact Practicing Muslims? ohh allow me i just appreciate hypocrisy whenever I come across it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Lily- Posted November 17, 2009 What hypocricy are you referring to? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted November 17, 2009 Cl...It seems you make assumptions while at the same time questioning other people's assumptions. How do you know if a person is not practicing Muslim? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny B Posted November 17, 2009 Lily, Hypocricy redefined. The VAST majority of Somali ladies would not be visiting a guy at his house before marriage. and then I should have said the ‘vast majority of God-fearing’ ones. Fact: a great number of Somali girls DO vissit their bf ( to be husbands if you like ) before making it official. There you have it. why? cause vast majority of Somali girls ( be they born-in-somali or in another country)consider themselves god-fearing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted November 17, 2009 Hello trollers! For the North Americans, tonight don't forget to check out the Leonid meteor showers. If you're anywhere with low light pollution they will be visible with the naked eye. Johnny, I don't know why the girls are dancing around the real reason, I guess they are just too charitable. But I tell it like it is: the girl was just trying to avoid your tired 1970s seduction routine. She saw the trail of rose petals, Bobby Womack's voice crooning in the background, the lava lamp's glow from around the corner, and especially the shag carpeting and decided she wasn't having none of that Did she ask where the warankiilo was at some point? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abu-Salman Posted November 17, 2009 if johnny was a woman, he would be called certain name and rightly so. personally loose people waa isku mid, men or woman. and did he imply the woman in his kitchen, polishing wine glasses was a sujui woman? meaning they have no morals? away sujuyadii meeshan joogay? i agree with lily, she had no business being in your home, or kitchen or doing kitchen stuff. hada kahor baan maqlay why buy the cow when milk is free!!! i wont like to liken women with cows tho. ^^lol @ Suju implying having no morals & buying the cow...100% agree though! What it is the significance of marriage or fidelity for that matter, from the angle of let's say "unconventional" individuals? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Lily- Posted November 17, 2009 I will take Cara's version. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted November 17, 2009 Fact: a great number of Somali girls DO vissit their bf ( to be husbands if you like ) before making it official. It is your opinion of fact-not an actual fact Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted November 17, 2009 Johnny, i think you intentionally misunderstood me. first i was not calling you names, just stating that it is not the custom to invite a girl back to your home. the lady in question should not accept but respond with dacas on your face and waryaa yaad imooday? intaa ma dhicin, marka waa adiga iyo rabigaa. now i concede some women would accept such invitation but i would expect it would be secretly. i know women who frequent in boyfriend's house are called names in our culture, so would it not be fair if the men who allow them or invite them over share same treatment? CL, hooyo kuu sheegi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted November 17, 2009 Usheeg Che. Not only is the sample size unlikely to be adequate for proper statistical rigor, but chances are the subset of girls he associates with is not representative of Somali girls as a whole. To be able to make that conclusion he'll need to approach girls randomly and ask them if they visit men's homes. Preferably in the presence of their parents or significant others so the girls don't feel apprehensive about talking to a strange man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny B Posted November 17, 2009 Cara, It's enough that you crossed my heart , despite being ONLY 10 years younger than me,horta, why do you've to insist that i'm an old man?! I own none of the things ( ok maybe one or two , but absolutely no Womack&womack album) you mentioned above. It's colorine and no She diden't ask , as that would mean , we ARE couple. Che`, for once in this terrorist life of yours , be frank and tell the world about that 'hijabi' who vissited you. and tell me with straight face that she diden't put a foot on the wrong side of the gate. Abu , I maybe a male-wh*re if that brushes your suit,but you can't make 'Marriage' more than than what it actually is, namely, an official couplehood. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted November 17, 2009 What assumptions? Lily- nothing personal or against you I assure you. I tend to hear and find this very hypocritical; “The VAST majority of Somali ladies would not be visiting a guy at his house before marriage.” Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted November 17, 2009 @Juxa Juxa my hoyo is part of the old school….do u want me to turn black and blue? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites