Aaliyyah Posted November 25, 2008 I didn't see anywhere in the story where it mentioned oh she wanted him? If that's the case by all means. I already mentioned earlier that some people don't mind sharing their husbands. So go ahead she can. But, if in any case she doesn't want to share him she has that right to get her divorce papers. And, even then he has to support her. Too bad she lives in H-town cuz if she lived here she could have made sure he supported her even though she got her papers. I heard this story about a guy divorcing his wife and somehow she took him to court so now they deduct like 2000 dollars from his account directly without even asking for his permission hehehe aint that just sweet. So maybe you are right because she lives back home and there is not a law in place she has to be sweet or he can stop paying her . oh well.. salaam.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted November 25, 2008 Aaliyah, glad u didnt looked at one side Plus this is not ninkaan la jiraa, I did not even supported his actions. I said, sheekadan waa in la baaraa, waxyaala badana ayaa ka khaldan, meeshana dad baa ka dhax shaqeenayo oo labada is qabta isku dirayo(no JB ) marka waa laga fiirsadaa maadaama ay tahay arrin adag oon la taaban karin ama la fudeed loo qaadan karin. Afro lool adaa macalimmad ah xaga af soomaalka Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted November 25, 2008 ^^ Sometimes, I forget that Afro is a girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Geel_jire Posted November 25, 2008 Hello Ibti .. how is it going ? ladies i meant that as a joke .... I'm scared that you actually think like that. for the record Aaliyah a second marriage is not and never has been grounds for divorce from wife numero uno .. a man is within his rights to marry #2, #3, and #4. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted November 25, 2008 ^It's also a women's religious right to attain a divorce if she can't share her husband.. salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted November 25, 2008 Originally posted by NGONGE: ^^ Sometimes, I forget that Afro is a girl. hehehe Only the name ngonge only the name Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted November 25, 2008 lol ngonge qac aa tahay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted November 25, 2008 ^ Sharing is caring ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted November 25, 2008 Geeljire, think of a standard car. There's space for the driver, and 4 seat belts. Legally the driver can have 4 passengers in his car, but he cannot force any one passenger to stay in the car. I'm pretty sure marriage, even polygamous marriage, is supposed to work on the same principle, with every participant being willing adults. So a man can shop around until he finds a woman who's okay with bed-hopping, but no particular woman is obligated to be one of his wives. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted November 25, 2008 ^^ This is you this is: (google him if you want. Swiss Tony). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faarax-Brawn Posted November 25, 2008 Originally posted by Cara: Geeljire, think of a standard car. There's space for the driver, and 4 seat belts. Legally the driver can have 4 passengers in his car, but he cannot force any one passenger to stay in the car. I'm pretty sure marriage, even polygamous marriage, is supposed to work on the same principle, with every participant being willing adults. So a man can shop around until he finds a woman who's okay with bed-hopping, but no particular woman is obligated to be one of his wives. Mhmm...that is kind of sensible Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted November 25, 2008 Hello Ibti .. how is it going ? ladies i meant that as a joke .... I'm scared that you actually think like that. for the record Aaliyah a second marriage is not and never has been grounds for divorce from wife numero uno .. a man is within his rights to marry #2, #3, and #4. Prove it from ISlam. A second marriage is and HAS been grounds for divorce. If one can divorce her husband for being short or ugly, your better believe she can divorce him for marrying a second time. No women is obligated to stay married under terms she is not satisfied with. Islamic marriage is not the prison you all make it out to be. Once he reach his decision to marry and he does so, she has to make her own decision to whether to walk away or try to cope. We've had this discussion before and I told you the deen is not what YOU want it to be . I'm good huuno, and urself? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Geel_jire Posted November 25, 2008 @ Cara .. as much as I love car analogies that one is not an accurate for this situation. assuming he is fulfilling all his other roles .. naag kale ayaa la ila guursaday ma iskaga fasakhi kartaa ninka ? .. No, as far as I know. EDIT ibti ... I'm no sheikh myself so I'll leave it that. but recently at a local mosque a xalimo made it one of the condition of her marriage contract that her faarax may not marry another xalimo while still married to her. the sh. canceled that provision even though the faarax was ok with it, his reasoning being "you cannot deny him a god-given right .. just because you do not approve of it" .. besides it is a one helleva bargaining chip Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted November 25, 2008 hell yeah n kick him in da nuts for good measure Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted November 25, 2008 ^^^^ Ngonge You did not provide much info ...Bantaadana iga leexi aryaa ..shimiraraha haigu so kicine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
