ManOfWisdom Posted September 3, 2003 Are u an underprivileged commoner,a princess, or a queen? How much will ur dowry be? A penny, a pound or a billion? Are u cheap or expensive, are u poor or rich, are u beautiful or a beast? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted September 3, 2003 Lets have a conversation over shaah with haail until we start to get responses from our fellow sisters bro! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ManOfWisdom Posted September 3, 2003 Don't worry Continental this piece is for a hot girl, she will see and respond prunto! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiSs_SkyLine_GTR Posted September 3, 2003 Ama a queen, ama also expensive. Beautiful, can be a bit of a beast. But can be very nice :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuCkY Posted September 3, 2003 Beauty is in the eye of the behoLder. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ManOfWisdom Posted September 4, 2003 Lucky u r right. Its in the eyes and the brain that process the picture. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SomeAlien Posted September 4, 2003 my grand father named me qaly, cause he said id be an expensive bride. but alas i have a strange mind in comparison to my people. i liken it to prostitution. i prefer no money to be passed at my wedding. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ManOfWisdom Posted September 4, 2003 SOMEALIEN WHAT HECK ARE U TALKING ABOUT? i DIDN'T UNDERSTAND UR POINT NOR WHY U USED SOME UNSPEAKABLE WORDS! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality Check Posted September 4, 2003 err... Priceless! You really can't put a price on me like I am for sale. I am beyond that sweety! :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 4, 2003 I have a couple of questions what's a popper? and since when did we have dowrys? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted September 4, 2003 Salaam , man of freedom let me break down for u if u mean dowrys = mahar al shar'ey , that doesn't mean that is ur price means Gift to give ur to be ur wife . did i spoke readable language dear ?? salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted September 4, 2003 dowry is affordable gift to your would-be wife, affordable means something u can give and happy with and not kalif. remember 'kalif' is haram. it is upto the woman to say how and what her dowry would be, and men should be aware of their capabilities of providing that gift, once agreed it will become a must or duty. it is better to pay the dowry upfront before consuming the marriage, so igu lahow is total NO-NO. one more thing the woman should be reasonable while naming her dowry personally, i would rather follow a tradition, set by my grand-mom, her dowry was 4 faataxo, 1 holly book and a toothbrush. in return all the women in my family got over 30+ yrs of happy and fulfilled marriages Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted September 4, 2003 Juxa, I agree with you a 100%... Some thing reasonable...Cuz what one might consider cheap, another might consider it to be expensive... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ManOfWisdom Posted September 5, 2003 Dear Kool Kat, I hate to disagree with u in every issue but let me ask u.. Why can't both man and woman enter in a marriage at an equal terms? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xafsa Posted September 5, 2003 I agree with somealian---things have changed since our grand parents time and even our parent's time. I think a man and a woman should enter into a partnership not a trade agreement. 1luv Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites