Nefertiti Posted July 18, 2003 "This strange disease of modern life with its brisk hurry and divided aims." Stress is predominant in our society. Most of us are running here, running there, doing something at high speed, never relaxing. To improve upon this stressful way of life we can reassess our values and routines. If possible, we can eliminate some of those things which are not necessary to a contented life, and we can slow down. Achieving a stress free way of life will help keep us healthier and living longer and make our time here a lot more fun. The Western over tension and jerkiness and breathlessness and intensity and agony of expression are bad habits, nothing more or less. Tension is a habit. Relaxing is a habit. And bad habits can be broken, and good habits formed. Make a determined effort to please someone. Offer help, agree, smile. This is much easier than trying to impress others, or trying to be perfect. Thinking of, and interacting with others, can be very soothing on the nerves, particularly if you expect no credits. You can often visualize your way out of tension by picturing yourself in a very calm, peaceful, serene setting, in complete easy control. Picture it vividly and hold on to it. You can use your imagination in many different ways to help siphon off tensions - when at the bathroom sink or in the shower, let all your worries, stresses, anxieties, run down the drain with the dirty soapy water. When you start to feel stress coming on, immediately try relaxing the muscles and fill your mind with thoughts of Allah, peace, tranquillity, confidence, strength, happiness. Take notice of, and enjoy your surroundings all through the day. Look at, listen to, smell the limitless variety of things natural everywhere. Nefertiti Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG Moti Posted July 18, 2003 beautiful words, i couldnt agree less peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites