Fikrada Gebedha Bikro ma Tahay....

[Nephissa]

Horta kaalay nin "Bikro" ma jiraa? Why is it only a woman's virginity always the one that matter's more? It seems that there's no value placed on the man's.

[Ibtisam]

^^^There is no value on either, people need to stop obsessing about random meaningless, clearly irrelevant things. Virginity is not for some Farah or Xalimo, it is a personal choice that people make, according to their own made up system and conditions. Why it is a big issue that deserves a "fikrada" is beyond me :rolleyes: how about a new fikrada for something that matters and you can control!

[NGONGE]

^^ Virginity is a personal choice? You're just asking for trouble, aren't you?

[Ibtisam]

^^Yes it is a personal choice, it is not a communal decision, nor can religion force you to be a virgin, you choice to obey or disobey. Who would have a problem with that??

[-Lily-]

I quiet agree with Ghanima.

 

As for your question Nephtys, it's cause they are male-sluts.

[Pujah]

LoL watch out girls the virginity police is on the loose :rolleyes:

[Jacaylbaro]

Dadkani II MOORI weli may arag miyaa ??

[RedSea]

bikrinimo is very important to many of us but I don't like the way this topic has deterioted. This is one of the things I am starting to not like about SOL is because people get too personal as though they are being pointed the finger.

[Jacaylbaro]

walaahi sheekadaan hayo hadaan idiinka sheekeeyo waydun qosli ,,,,

[RedSea]

Bal soo daa meeshu waa boring oo xooga kaftan iyo furfurnaan ayaa looga baahan yahay.

[Jacaylbaro]

dee nin baa gabadh guursaday ,, ninku doqon buu ahaa oo ciyaaraha xataa muu maqal ,,, gabadhu bikro bay ahayd dabadeedna odayga gidaarkii baa ku adkaaday ,,, intuu yaabay buu subaxii warqadeeda siiyay ,,,,

 

Waxoogaa ka dib buu mid carmal ah (garoob) guursaday ,,, dee markiiba DHAG bay xaajadu noqotay ,,,,

 

 

Intuu istaagay buu yidhi:

 

DEE WAKAA ,, DADKA ILAAHAYNA KALA DIIR JILICSAN

[nuune]

DADKA ILAAHAYNA KALA DIIR JILICSAN

loolz

 

 

Naag baa bari la weydiiyey ninka ay jeceshahay, ofcourse weyna ku faantamaysey gabarnimadeeda(bikronimo), markaas baa waxey akhrisey tixdan yaree goos-gooska ah:

 

waxey tiri rag waxaan ugu jeclahey:

 

Gar madoobe,

geed walwaale,

garruun weyne,

gujo kulule,

gunta ku geeye,

kuna gufeeye,

gidaarra jeexe,

gurxan badane,

gebagebeeye,

gacan sarreeye,

[Jacaylbaro]

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[Jacaylbaro]

gabadhna waxa lagu yidhi NAA NINKAN FOOSHA XUN MAXAAD KU FASHAY ,,,

 

markaasay tidhi ,, II DAAYA HABEENKII BUU QURUX BADAN YAHAYE

[Aaliyyah]

[24:26] The bad women for the bad men, and the bad men for the bad women, and the good women for the good men, and the good men for the good women.

 

Basically, this ayah points out that If you are righeous and on the right path don't fear, Allah swt will reward you with someone who has the same values as you. However, if some men date and sleep around, they should not expect to get virgins..qof kula mid ah uun ayad heli.

 

perhaps, it is time to improve your personal lifestyle to attain a good spouse.

 

take care.