Somali's and the caste issue in marriage

[Napoleon]

^ I prefer my theory.

[NGONGE]

So how far did we get and where is KK?

(She's the one that started all of this).

[General Duke]

Lets be civil people and stop insulting clans.

[NGONGE]

^^ War bax!

Was it not you who started this thread? What did you expect?

[General Duke]

^^^I did not expect reer Burco to tell us we could not marry their girls, which we have been doing for a century or so.

[Napoleon]

So much for this place being a bastion of "educated, liberal minded" somali's.

[Che -Guevara]

LoooooL@Sheh...then add little spicy that rumor, makes up for good story coming from you

Bilaajo, only the best neighborhood in Xamar Cadeey

[Sherban Shabeel]

Before this thread gets hit with the slipper by the admins, I wanted to ask:

 

Do you guys consider the Jareer to be Somalis? Is marriage to them an option?

[NGONGE]

Originally posted by General Duke:

^^^I did not expect reer Burco to tell us we could not marry their girls, which we have been doing for a century or so.

Of course you have. That is NOT the point, saaxib. Pay attention now.

[General Duke]

NG: Pardon me adeer Burco girls dont marry "southerners" is that the point? I thought you was talking about all "Southerners"

[Nehanda]

Sherban- I believe Jareer is an epithet used to demean certain somali groups due to their features. As far as I am aware they are Somalis and yes many would consider marying them.

 

With regard, to the minority clan issue, it is nonsense, trivial and ridiculous. There are bigger things to worry about.

[BUKURR]

Interesting topic to read

 

Unna meele kurooraanne, let the nobles fight each other, am satisfied with mine and never singled out no one.

[Cabdow]

I think we can all talk the talk, but can we walk the walk (intermarriage) is the million dollar ???

 

In my humble opinion i think we can! How you might ask? The answer is simple, which is to 'Practice the Diin before the Dhaqan'

[RedSea]

There is one thing that ever crossed my mind when I was considering. Is she hot, her work ethic and how is her personality/dabeecad. Her qabiil was never an issue. I think the girls of today are all good bet, because most of them aren't political, so they wouldn't know what Somaliland/puntland/Somalia were exactly. They just dont give rat *** about all that. That is from personal perspective.

[Rahima]

In threads like this you learn a lot about people;)

 

Qabiil (or its pseudonym region) has never been an issue for me, hence why my husband and I are as different as they come. What matters is how strongly they value their qabiil and/or dhaqan- too strongly and a no no.

 

NGONGE, you've got to be kidding right? Are you actually trying to argue that Islam allows for discrimination based on qabiil?