5 questions women ask and the answers to them

[SayidSomal]

The five questions are:

1. "What are you thinking?"

2. "Do you love me?"

3. "Do I look fat?"

4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"

5. "What would you do if I died?"

 

What makes these questions so bad is that every one is guaranteed to explode into a major argument and/or divorce if the man does not answer

properly, which is to say dishonestly. For example:

 

1. "What are you thinking?"

The proper answer to this question, of course,

is,

"I'm sorry if I've been pensive, dear. I was just reflecting on what a warm, wonderful, caring, thoughtful, intelligent, beautiful woman you are and what a lucky guy I am to have met you."

 

Obviously, this statement bears no resemblance whatsoever to what the guy was really

thinking at the time, which was most likely one of five things:

a - Baseball

b - Football

c - How fat you are.

d - How much prettier she is than you.

e - How he would spend the insurance money if you died.

 

According to the Sassy article, the best answer to this ****** question came from Al Bundy, of Married With Children, who was asked it by his wife, Peg. "If I wanted you to know," Al said, "I'd be talking instead of thinking."

The other questions also have only one right answer but many wrong answers:

 

2. "Do you love me?" The correct answer to this question is, "Yes." For those guys who feel the need to be more elaborate, you may answer, "Yes,

dear. Wrong answers include:

a - I suppose so.

b - Would it make you feel better if I said yes.

c - That depends on what you mean by "love".

d - Does it matter?

e - Who, me?

 

3. "Do I look fat?" The correct male response to this question is to confidently and emphatically state, "No, of course not" and then quickly

leave the room. Wrong answers include:

a - I wouldn't call you fat, but I wouldn't call you thin either.

b - Compared to what?

c - A little extra weight looks good on you.

d - I've seen fatter.

e - Could you repeat the question? I was thinking about your insurance policy.

 

4. "Do you think she's prettier than me?" The "she" in the question could be an ex-girlfriend, a passer-by you were starring at so hard thay you almost cause a traffic accident or an actress in a movie you just saw. In any case, the correct response is, "No, you are much prettier."

Wrong answers include:

a - Not prettier, just pretty in a different way.

b - I don't know how one goes about rating such things.

c - Yes, but I bet you have a better personality.

d - Only in the sense that she's younger and thinner.

e - Could you repeat the question? I was thinking about your

insurance policy.

 

5. "What would you do if I died?" Correct answer: "Dearest love, in the event of your untimely demise, life would cease to have meaning for me and I would perforce hurl myself under the front tires of the first Domino's Pizza truck that came my way." This might be the stupidest

question of the lot, as is illustrated by the following ****** joke:

 

"Dear," said the wife. "What would you do if I died?"

"Why, dear, I would be extremely upset," said the husband. "Why do you ask such a question?"

"Would you remarry?" persevered the wife.

"No, of couse not, dear" said the husband.

"Don't you like being married?" said the wife.

"Of course I do, dear" he said.

"Then why wouldn't you remarry?"

"Alright," said the husband, "I'd remarry."

"You would?" said the wife, looking vaguely hurt.

"Yes" said the husband.

"Would you sleep with her in our bed?" said the wife after a long pause.

"Well yes, I suppose I would." replied the husband.

"I see," said the wife indignantly."And would you let her wear my

old clothes?"

"I suppose, if she wanted to" said the husband.

"Really," said the wife icily. "And would you take down the

pictures of me and replace them with pictures of her?"

"Yes. I think that would be the correct thing to do."

"Is that so?" said the wife, leaping to her feet. "And I suppose

you'd let her play with my golf clubs, too."

"Of course not, dear," said the husband. "She is left-handed."

[Che -Guevara]

I suppose wont' pertain to Somali but there's one commonality, if ever she says do you love me, don't hesitate or go aaa granted you actually do love her

[Kool_Kat]

1. "What are you thinking?"

 

 

According to the Sassy article, the best answer to this ****** question came from Al Bundy, of Married With Children, who was asked it by his wife, Peg.

"If I wanted you to know," Al said, "I'd be talking instead of thinking."

Al Bundy was my fav man on television! Rageedii!!

[Juxa]

a somali woman asking do you love me?

 

dream on

[SayidSomal]

by the very nature of things - women are woman first and foremost. nationality, ethnicity all come second.

[-Lily-]

^LOL@ Juxa

[Che -Guevara]

^War Juxa, you never wondered?

 

 

You and I must into different Somali women.

[Juxa]

lily i cant imagine somali woman asking

 

- waryaa ma ijeceshahay?

-heblaayo ma iga qurux badantahay? (her pride wont allow that)

 

ps: loved al bundy and his bum wiggling

[Kool_Kat]

^Kuwa hada jiraadan ogeyn hee Juxa?

[-Lily-]

Juxa I agree, if anyone sits around asking questions like that...waxba meesha ma uyaalan.

[Khayr]

"No, of course not" and then quickly

leave

Waar kaabaxso ASAP!

 

Wise words, wise words indeed!

[SayidSomal]

Juxa - Somali women ask questions - granted not directly - which is even more tricky.

for example

instead of asking "what are you thinking?"

without haven said anything before - they suddenly say: "miyaadan i maqlin - waxbaan ku waydiyaye" - when one answers: "maxaad i waydiisay" they will come with it: "oo maxaad ka fekeresay?" Double Trouble

[Chocolate and Honey]

"Is that so?" said the wife, leaping to her feet. "And I suppose

you'd let her play with my golf clubs, too."

"Of course not, dear," said the husband. "She is left-handed."

Triple trouble!

[5]

I've only used "what are you thinking" after terrible silence just as a desperate attempt to open conversation. Isn't that the sole purpose of that mind-numbingly id1otic question? You only use it when you feel like you're in a Harold Pinter play. Or worse, a Samuel Beckett play.

 

Dear God, relationships are awful.

[Jacaylbaro]

Originally posted by Juxa:

a somali woman asking do you love me?

 

dream on

I was just asked that question ,,, few minutes ago. and yes, she is Somali ...