Aaliyyah Posted July 31, 2008 A & T I agree with you it depends on the context. If both are working like ibti said it wouldn't be fair to ask the lady to do the house chores. However, if only the guy is working then it would be understandable to expect the woman to do the household chores. The old somali culture promotes that men to stay away from the kitchen and what not. But, now it pretty much changed, many guys cook their own food.Since, so many of them live on their own so they are forced to cook their food or spend more money on take outs. so ibti if u want a brother to help u out find a chef, make sure the first question is "can you cook?" ..and be like if not u are not qualified ...cuz the chances are if he cant cook he was spoiled by a family and u wouldnt want a spoiled brat who cant cook or do the dishes... wa salaaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abtigiis Posted July 31, 2008 Agree on the first part. But on your final closing lines, are girls looking for husbands or cooks these days? I don't think it has to be part of the selection criteria. Just to be cheeky, nin Dish-washer ah sideed odhan adigu. Hawlihii kaluu ka habsaamiye?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted July 31, 2008 ^^I can't speak for other ladies, However I would want someone who can cook and help out with the household chores. su'asha i waydiisay ma hubo in aa fahmay....nin weelka dhaqa saan u galaya miya tidhi?? hawlaha kale iga habsaamiyeyna maxa waaye ...bal hadalka isoo jilci walaal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted July 31, 2008 ^^^I don't think you want him to go there my dear AAliyah. Sheeko aan loo jeediin buu waada! Take my word for it, you don't want him to go there :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abtigiis Posted July 31, 2008 Aaliyah; Don't mind. Hadal la jilciyaa meesha ma yaal. Was just trying to pull your leg. Not literally, though. 'You would want someone who can cook"? No harm in your wish, as long as you don't make it mandatory. EDIT:- Ibtisam, your fears are understandable and well-founded. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted July 31, 2008 ^ whats wrong if I make it mandatory? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abtigiis Posted July 31, 2008 No discussion on the morality of it. It is an opinion. For you, you know what is good. The practicality of it is more useful to discuss about. You may find the right guy without the skills. Tell me in all honesty, you will turn him down? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted July 31, 2008 ^ I don't think I will turn him down, I will simply tell him to learn how to cook.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted July 31, 2008 ^^^If he is not willing to learn an extra skill, yes. It means he is not open minded enough and is not willing to change with the times and circumstances. Adaptability is a vital skill. There should not even be a discussion about cooking food. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pujah Posted July 31, 2008 Don't we ever get tired of asking this silly questions "should the man help cook or clean or any do any house chores" I mean really if he can't feed himself asaga iyo naagtisa ku dhib qaba so why is it ever a discussion. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
money Posted July 31, 2008 Baccalà Cacciucco Alici, Sardine, Anguilla marinate Seppioline in umido Missultin e polenta Fritata di bianchetti Fritto misto di pesce Orate al forno Acciughe fritte in pastella Acciughe in carpione Acquadella o latterino fritto Agghiotta di pesce spada Anguilla marinata Baccalà alla vicentina Baccalà fritto Branzino al sale Brodetto di arselle Buridda Calamaretti fritti Calamari in zimino Calamari ripieni Capesante alla veneziana Cappon magro Carpaccio di pesce Cartoccio di pesce spada Cozze alla tarantina Cozze fritte alla iareggina Cozze ripiene Filetti di baccalà Filetti di orata al cartoccio Frittura mista di pesce Grancevola alla veneziana Impanata di pesce spada Involtini di pesce Moscardini lessati alla genovese Murena fritta Nasello al forno Orata arrosto Pepata di cozze Pesce a scabecciu Pesce al cartoccio Pesce alla pizzaiola Pesce spada alla siciliana Pesce Spada arrosto in salmoriglio Polpettine di mare Sarde a beccafico Sarde arraganate (sarde con origano e pane) Sarde grigliate Sarde ripiene Sarde sfiziose panate Sardele in saor Sbroscia bolsenese Scampi a zuppetta Scampi gratinati Seppie col nero alla veneziana Seppie con i piselli Seppie ripiene Sogliole alla mugnaia Spiedini ai frutti di mare Spiedini di alici Spiedini di anguilla Stoccafisso alla genovese Stoccafisso alla ligure Tonno sott'olio Tortiera di cozze Totano imbottito Triglie alla livornese Zuppa di pesce Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
money Posted July 31, 2008 This is Cabdicasiis Dhicis - A Somali man cooking. http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=CUCn3HYIa8U enjoy his cooking ladies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted July 31, 2008 waxaa tiriba lagu yiri lol hadaba inoo jilci walaal af ingiriiski baan ku dhib qabnay markaas af jamaljaan nasoo hordhigtay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
money Posted July 31, 2008 These are Italian fish dishes sorry But here is one you gonna befeasting on soon http://hem.passagen.se/ivik.sj/images/koksambusa7.jpg so afur wanaagsan..Afro-Gabar! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
