5 Posted December 8, 2006 Originally posted by Devilangle: Fartun Just do ’nt do it Do u know what it means to have children?? Okay, let me help u out here (as I have 2 rugrats of my own). Having children means saying good bye 2 ur precious nightly sleep, peace, 2 freedom and hello to lifetime of torture and constant worrying 24/10 (the effect of having kids, u tent to see the week a bit longer). In summary, just don’t do it. So the bad sides exceed the good sides? Or is there another reason why you are not telling of them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
5 Posted December 8, 2006 I must say the replies are quite appalling! Here we have educated Somalis, but they don't want to have any children. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qandalawi Posted December 8, 2006 Simply my opinion: The best time for men to have kids is mid 20's The best time for girls to have babies would be early 20's Simple, productive and balances both sides of the equation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shakti Posted December 8, 2006 So the bad sides exceed the good sides? Or is there another reason why you are not telling of them? Im having senior moment dear, what other reasons did I forget 2 mention?? Anything in mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hodman Posted December 8, 2006 Originally posted by Devilangle: quote:So the bad sides exceed the good sides? Or is there another reason why you are not telling of them? Im having senior moment dear, what other reasons did I forget 2 mention?? Anything in mind lol your hilarious Fartun best thing you can do is have a child of your own. It's awesome...until they grow up to be teenagers I guess Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted December 22, 2006 God bless the Fertility clinic and surrogacy... this self imposed pressure is not required anymore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lost-One Posted December 22, 2006 Originally posted by Abaadir: You said this in earlier thread: quote: Originally posted by Fartun. but yeah for me it would be 3 years max. coz my husband is 2 years older than me which most of you would say oh yeah whatever, he is 23 and i am 21, dont' ask me how we end up together and married, but is just an example. And Now you are saying this: but dose of you who want to know about my husbands age he is 27years old i know he is old, but yeah i got married when i turned 19 and he was 25 How is this possible? Originally posted by fartun: hey pple i just wnat ask yo guys can somali girl marry black american, what i mean was that i am in love with black guy and we have been together in about 3years and half, and i know that that my parent won't let get long with him, because of our culture. he is the only guy i have ever met with, not only love and every thing else, he even help me my home work, and he boughte me a car, so every time he asked me if i can get marry him so what can i do with him should i say yes or say no and follow my parents, plezzz what can i do. i am not a little girl i am in university of california. mmy age is 19. so plezzz answer my questions. thanx pple. I think you all need to forget about the best age to conceive and start wondering why Fartun is a compulsive lair or maybe only Abaadir and I are bothered about all this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted December 22, 2006 ^^^that is a problem, maybe she has split personality! she has certainly knows how to make people laugh. Her previous posts are comical! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted December 22, 2006 this girl is just hilarious my god, u kno what maybe she was bored and she felt like posting lol...or perhaps she is married bt is dating a black man behind her husbandz back . U neva know. naa ninkaaga ku ekow lol wa salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captain Xalane Posted December 23, 2006 Damn these lil girls and black dudes.kulaha,he bought me a car,helped me with homework la la la.Damn,u think the dude gave ya all that for free? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
man_in_malaysia Posted December 23, 2006 NO NEED TO MARRY... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pujah Posted December 23, 2006 There is no best age to have a child but generally people start having kids when they are emotionally and financially ready to take such responsibilites.....sista judging from your previous writings I don't think you have reached there yet....so wait few more years...that is just my big sisterly advice nooh ...and take it at your own risk :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wiilo Posted December 23, 2006 I agree, there is no best time to have children, just if you feel that you are financially ready and feel you can handle the responsibilities that comes with then go ahead and have children. Go figure:...................... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
man_in_malaysia Posted December 23, 2006 ee weliga hadi aad lacag sugtid goorma, goorma guursane deeqdaa allaa baxsheee..the best way waxa u maleena..ilaahga bari and go ahead.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cindrella Posted December 26, 2006 I say start now while you can.Those eggs are not going to last that long anyway. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
