stpaulchick Posted August 23, 2003 Okay...I hope this doesn't offend anyone but I just need a question answered. So this goes for the fellas...ya'll females can answer it if u can. So here it goes...okay in Minneapolis...I don't know about other places. Why do u Somalian guys always gotta be standing outside the Somali Malls???why why why??? :confused: I just don't get it. If that's your way of "fishing" :rolleyes: for women...well it ain't attractive . I personally (can't speak for all) can't stand it when ya'll be standing out there. Yesterday I was at the Somali mall on 24th...and all these bunch of guys where standing outside...I swear to god I just flipped out on them ....and told them to get lives. That may seem a bit harsh...but they got to hear it from someone...they lucky it was me...being nice and all So don't get offended...but feel free to express urself!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted August 23, 2003 You must be talking about the uneducated ones!. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lefty Posted August 23, 2003 Maybe they were greating each others, remember Somali Greating usually takes 15-30 minutes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xafsa Posted August 23, 2003 ^^^ no I've seen what she is talking about and its not greeting trust me. They stand at the door and stare and stare 'till you get close enough then its " abaayo waa lugu salaamay", or " what up showty!", or " abaayo macaan waa kaa helay walaahi...magaalada maa ku cusbtahay?!" But I aint complaining....I go down there when My ego needs a little boosting!! YOu have to in aad ku qarxisid or else I wouldn't be a true somali woman!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stpaulchick Posted August 23, 2003 It's not greeting....it's eyeballing every female that walks on by...and it's usually the same ppl!! it just makes me mad U got it down flying_still....I hate that same-ol-same questions. Do u know how many fake names I come up wit?? It's incrediable Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ayaan8321 Posted August 23, 2003 Originally posted by stpaulchick: Okay...I hope this doesn't offend anyone but I just need a question answered. So this goes for the fellas...ya'll females can answer it if u can. So here it goes...okay in Minneapolis...I don't know about other places. Why do u Somalian guys always gotta be standing outside the Somali Malls???why why why??? :confused: I just don't get it. If that's your way of "fishing" :rolleyes: for women...well it ain't attractive . I personally (can't speak for all) can't stand it when ya'll be standing out there. Yesterday I was at the Somali mall on 24th...and all these bunch of guys where standing outside...I swear to god I just flipped out on them ....and told them to get lives. That may seem a bit harsh...but they got to hear it from someone...they lucky it was me...being nice and all So don't get offended...but feel free to express urself!! sis..it´s not just in Minneapolis...this happens in sweden too..there is a mall in sweden where it happens to be located meel ee soomalida kubadantahay, markaas ee nimanka mesha taagtaaganyihiin..walaahi hadii martid socodka aa kaa dhumaayo.. :mad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xafsa Posted August 23, 2003 Originally posted by stpaulchick: Do u know how many fake names I come up wit?? It's incrediable lol I know what you mean...Fake names fake states I came from!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stpaulchick Posted August 23, 2003 LOL...flying_still. I used every Somali girls name...even some American. And I've apprently lived in almost every country!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted August 23, 2003 Why go to these places that are full of mali men in the first place!. I am sure if you take your ayeyo or Habaryere, you wouldn't have any problems!. Somali men have a disease of starring at people as if you are an alien from mars and I am sure you know this. Be realistic ladies, I am sure know you like a bit of shuukansii somahaan! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lefty Posted August 23, 2003 Or Maybe They are hidden Security-Guards volunteerly protecting the young buyers like you girls not to be robbed from their new outfits right infront of the malls.LOL The best thing is asking them right where they were if you are searching for real answers. " abaayo waa lugu salaamay", or " what up showty!", or " abaayo macaan waa kaa helay walaahi...magaalada maa ku cusbtahay?!" These are the last millennium pick-ups LOL. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zakariye Posted August 23, 2003 s/alaykum walaal su'aal wacan ayaad weydiisay , but here is the truth of it, if you don't know yet , i am going to tell you why? Somalian Men Stare at every women who passes , first we have some sort of magic eyes, you know sort of laser eyes we can see through at every dress even if you are wearing Hijab,Lol all over your body, just kidding, what else should they have done,if they don't stare at yo'all and say hi , what tell me, if they don't do that then you would have said , they so insensative, they don't greet us, so ladies which way you want to be treated? c/salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stpaulchick Posted August 23, 2003 Con_Bach--It has nothing to do with shuukansii!! We go for certain things....maybe we happen to want to purchase that new kammar and diira we say last week...but they be there all the time..WHY??? Zakariya--I'm not gonna lie...that we appreciate it when u guys greet us...that's a good sign. But when they start following u inside/outside...how long does he want to greet me :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shyhem Posted August 23, 2003 Originally posted by stpaulchick: I'm not gonna lie...that we appreciate it when u guys greet us...that's a good sign. But when they start following u inside/outside...how long does he want to greet me :confused: LOOool so u think greeting is free,how do u expect a brother to greet u and than just walk away like he is gay.Give me a break pretty lady,as long as u look pretty, men regardless of their color will stare at u and in some cases follow u.{why do u think woman organisations have come up with the add "no means no" i don't think they had somali men in mind when said so. soamli men hanging around the malll,while thats totally a different story,u see somali men mostly don't like hanging out with pple of other races and as such they find a sense of belonging at the mall.And that enviroment{@mall} kind reminds the somali man the village he come from. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted August 23, 2003 SHYHEM: LOOOL...go shyhem....go shyhem...Man you always hit the right spots with your comments!. Have you ever considered replacing Rage Omar from the BBC?. . ST PAUL CHICK: Con_Bach--It has nothing to do with shuukansii!! We go for certain things....maybe we happen to want to purchase that new kammar and diira we say last week...but they be there all the time..WHY??? Read SHYHEMS commments sis!!! Peace. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zakariye Posted August 23, 2003 s/calaykum wow st paul, my btf walaal i appreciate your honesty but it doesn't add up. Ok here is the thing let's flip the coin and assume for a sec that we had somali ladies stand around the mall which by the way they do too, more often then men, and i luv to c a somali women great me everytime i come in to the mall , or wherever, wallahi if i can get that ,not literally me, cz i am married, but am speaking from my heart , it will have been happy day for me, so why not try to ignore the few who mess up the true greeting and override them, walaahi macaan waa yaab, how much somali men love their somali sisters , and the sisters are falling behind , their part. good luck to all . c/salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
