Ibtisam Posted October 9, 2010 Loool Malika short term feelings are very real and nice. Dont mock them. d Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted October 9, 2010 ^ ,if it was a fling yeah,but a real relationship takes time to get over dear. One has not only invested their time,money,energy etc..their whole existance at one point had a connection to the other being - taasi waa the real thing. Lychee ..Indeed - hug ps.It gets easy with time - they say time is a healer - or just one grows up.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 9, 2010 Malika, your time, money, thoughts ad energy were being used else where before that connection. When the connection ends, slight re-direction only is needed. It is short term, nothing lasts forever and we should be content with that. My immediate response will be re-directing my resources to something else, it wont be killing him, his brother/friend, getting him back or replacing him with another. Short term goals are great, but short term emotions even better Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted October 9, 2010 ^It's easy said then done in some cases,even if your very good at switching your thoughts, there is bound to be a time of mourning the loss. LOL, Ibti waxaaguu waa flings dee, mahaa jaceel dee. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lychee Posted October 9, 2010 Malika: Waad saxsan tahay in that everyone’s xaal is different and that they deal with situations differently. Also, you are right: To say something is one thing, to act according to it is another thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted October 9, 2010 ^ ,so how are you today? Still want to cripple him? [sorry that is intrusive question] ps.You know you can hire Ibti,she is great at smashing knee caps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lychee Posted October 9, 2010 Malika: LOL to meddle is in our dhiig, so it’s all good. I don’t know Ibtisam but from what she writes, she seems like a somewhat heated individual, either that or she’s having a bad day. So yeah, I can definitely see her doing some mad Bruce Lee moves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted October 9, 2010 Ibti and Zack, my whole post waxaad ka garateen uun 'Just make-out with his brother or best friend, you'll be fine'? :mad: Did you miss my option (D), or calling the *******ho a loser? Double :mad: Why not just Our hearts aren't made of steel, I don't care if you're strong woman, weak woman, real woman or a fake woman...We all hurt when a loved one walks out on us, specially if it is so unexpectedly! Ps, Ibti is just crispy on the outside, but very tender on the inside! Car hadiido intaa... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 9, 2010 ^^^Loool inneyo. I am all hard. Looool @ Malika why are you telling people I break bones!!!! HAHA lol Lychee, seriously if you need help lol I had two friends once- one of them go her heart broken. When she told me, I was like oh never mind, life goes on. Our other friend was very mad and sh swore she was going to make him pay. Long story short, she approched him, made him fall inlove, wasted his money, he asked her to marry him, at which point, she laughed and the Ex popped her head around to share in the laugh. Anigu I was lke so much planning and effort. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted October 9, 2010 ^^A&t facshirkiisi baan sugaye topic yaa quful kudhuftay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Zack Posted October 9, 2010 KK, I have seen your other suggestions but the part I quoted was just priceless. Can u imagine a farax being told "hey your ex is kicking with your best friend and heck they seem to be making a great couple"? That farax's face will turn to huruud if not green. He would be like "oh yeah?, i'mma **** him off, I knew that nigga was triping. He is the one told me to leave that b" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 9, 2010 Che is telling her to call in sick? What for? Did the man give her cafimaad? Ibti-stop obsessing about the man. I was telling to indulge herself with nice coco and stay late in bed. Enjoy little moment Mida kale nagadaa bootada. Midku lagda hadii lahelo-you be in the same mood. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted October 9, 2010 LOOOOL @He is the one told me to leave that b!!! Now that would be priceless!!! I'm a true believer of 'payback is b'...I don't think there ever was a time where someone did me wrong and they didn't pay one way or another! I remember mar iney nearly a year igu qaadatay to-get-back at someone...It was a plan very well thoughtout and perfectly executed... :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 9, 2010 Lool @ Zak. lool. KK, loool @ planning nd executing it for a whole year! walahi you are something!!!! Che, lool, we both doubt that very much. I was mad you was telling her to stay in her sad mood. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
