SCORPION_SISTA Posted February 25, 2009 I read this column and someone sent in this letter: Q "my boyfriend of five years has severe anger and money issues. I constantly helped him out financially, professionally, and personally. If I refused there'd be a fight. Still, I love him dearly because he's a good guy. He's always said I'm "the one"; that every other woman has left him, but he wanted to grew old with me. Two months ago, he left me, but came back a week later, teary, saying we'd go to therapy. The therapist said he had attention deficit disorder, and once he got on medication many of our problems would be resolved. A week later, things were great until he said he didn't love me and left again. He's flying to Peru to see a girl he dated 15 years ago, and hoping to propose. He called her his true love, and hurt me more by saying he'd "wasted" five years with me. But, I know this fling won't last. I still truly love him, and I hate seeing our relationship going down the drain like this!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chubacka Posted February 25, 2009 ^did the medicine make him see sense?! Poor lady is full of contradictions, how can he be a "good guy" when he was bullying her for years. :rolleyes: Lets hope for her sake he stays in Peru. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted February 25, 2009 Seems to me she's the one with the attention deficit disorder. Today I saw someone with one of these and felt acute nostalgia: But I still haven't seen anyone using a plastic grocery bag as a backpack yet Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nephissa Posted February 26, 2009 OMG, L0L@plastic bag. Some of us used to put rubber bands around our school books. It held them in place real well. . and who can forget the lovely "jaldi" from the Fotoromanso pages. kkk. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted March 9, 2009 Cara, Did you really?? When on earth did you guys go to school?? :eek: :eek: I feel like some male free posting today. So Hello girls The sun is out and I woke up naturally and got to work for 9am!! hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolate and Honey Posted March 9, 2009 Hello, girls. I feel like the daylight savings time is a total CRAP! I still feel sleepy. Ibti,havent seen you arround here in a while. How u been sis? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted March 9, 2009 Hi girls Juucjuuc ayaa ihaya maanta. I feel like i should be worrying about something, but i dont know what that it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted March 9, 2009 LOOOL C&H wait for your body to get use to it. I'm starving Ms DD You should not be worrying about nothing. Don't worry till you remember then you can start worrying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted March 9, 2009 ^Go Eat Woman! Funny thing just happen...One of my colleague was on the phone talking to another lady helping her with an issue...All of a sudden she says..'You were having a Blonde moment weren’t you?' Right opposite her was another colleague who IS blonde Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted March 9, 2009 ^ LOL she's in trouble...the Blonde should file a human rights case against her. Sista...thats one silly woman. Good man my butt! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted March 9, 2009 ^^^LOOOL, poor blondes!! Was it not you who told me one meal a day yesterday! I waiting for my out of date sandwich to defrost. Btw if I get sick I am going to blame you. You told me that it is okay to eat frozen out-of-date food/bread Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted March 9, 2009 ^LoooL, no no...I NEVER said you should eat out of date food. esp. Fish! All I said was, you can buy a loaf of bread put it in the fridge freezer and it should be fine to eat even after the indicated expired date Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted March 9, 2009 ^^^Too late Walahi, I just eat it. As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong. I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The_Siren Posted March 9, 2009 Fahiima is right frozen toast just put into the toaster some how also tastes better than if it were of normal temperature. I know I'm a little strange but hell freezing bread is the Somali thing to do. So this is a male free zone eh? Sounds relaxing so what are ladies to do here? Drink tea eat salool and xalwad? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted March 9, 2009 Ibti, make sure you drink LOTS of water...Yes, I said Water As you get older, you realise, Life is just what you make it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
