Poor Bengali, What did Ibtisam done to you?

[Che -Guevara]

Abused Asian men's lives 'living hell'

 

By Sanjiv Buttoo

Asian Network

 

More South Asian men married to British women are becoming the victims of domestic violence, it has been revealed.

 

The National Men's Advice Line found 9% of calls for help to its service last year were made by men originally from countries such as India, Pakistan and Bangladesh.

 

 

Pakistani Mahmood Muhammad (not his real name) married a British-born Asian woman four years ago. Her family promised him that he could finish his degree in Pakistan before joining her to live permanently in West Yorkshire.

 

bbc

[Che -Guevara]

Imagine a Xaliimo doing this to Farax, it would have been really funny.

[Juxa]

yaaku yiri faarax lama garaaco.

 

anyways violence against any human being waa wrong wrong wrong

[Che -Guevara]

^Bac madow waan maqley laakin feer iyo faralaab maas arkin ama maqlin.

 

 

I was reading this article way way back about Hongkong having the first and possible the only shelter in the world for abused men.

[Naden]

Ferocious people! The brother getting beat on in his sleep should throw a punch or two. I don't condone domestic violence but beating people in their sleep is just a low down shame.

[Libaax-Sankataabte]

Ibtisam is not vicious at all.

[Eng.Cadde]

ibti is a sweet gabar,she doesnt have the audacity to yell at a farah let alone beat him. waa iska raaliyo mashalah alla noo daayo.

[rudy-Diiriye]

holly macro! that was a good ole beating. i never fight but my vibes will convenience u not to fight with me.

 

This reminds of an indian homie. His gal called the cops on him so many times that he use to end up in jails when she wants to party. However, she never crossed my line. She even hit on me, and i told her, hey, thanks for the offer but u know, i dont roll like that!

 

These homies are gluttons for punishments like this! No idea why they like to suffer so much.

 

Ibti is probably guilty of this crime, cuz she rolls with asians! the golf fits. lol

[RedSea]

Are you trying to lure ibtisam in this thread so you could have few liners in the form of shukaansi mise ibtisam is a great marketing name that way you could get more responders. One has to wonder I gues.

 

Anyhow, what is wrong with them South Asian males? They seem(to me) they have low testosterone levels.

[Herer]

UK LAUCHES CAMPAIGN AGAINST FORCED MARRIAGES

 

 

The U.K. government launched a campaign against forced marriages among members of minority communities, especially in Southeast Asia and the Muslim world, according to media reports Sunday.

 

The campaign involves the distribution of a series of videos to instruct relevant personnel such as police officers, psychologists and schools, on dealing with forced marriage complaints.

 

The Forced Marriage Unit (FMU), a specialist body established by the Foreign Office and the Home Office, deals each year with around 1,000 complaints of forced marriages, now becoming one of the most prevalent forms of domestic violence in the U.K.

 

This year witnessed a 16% increase in cases of forced marriages, the majority of which come from Pakistani, Indian, Bangladeshi families as well as several Middle Eastern countries.

 

Most victims of forced marriages are females under 18. However, males are not exempt from the practice. It is estimated 14% of boys are also forced into arranged marriages.

 

 

British nationals

 

FMU also helps British nationals who are forced into marriage by their families while in their countries of origin.

 

When Homaira Abdeen returned to Bangladesh, her family tried to put her in a mental asylum for refusing to marry a relative.

 

“I have nothing against my family,” she told Al Arabiya. “They gave me a good education and helped me with my career. Tradition is what made them detain me.”

 

The British embassy interfered and the Bangladeshi courts issued an unprecedented ruling that Abdeen be released and go back to the U.K.

 

Domestic violence is not much different from the torture that takes place in detention camps like Guantanamo, said Shami Chakrabarti, Director of Liberty Organization.

 

Liberty, also known as the National Council for Civil Liberties, was founded in 1934 to promote the equal treatment and personal freedom of all individuals.

 

“It is also important to express indignation at forced marriages in front of family and friends,” she told Arabiya.

 

Hundreds of girls from immigrant families are suffering from forced marriages. In many cases, they are abducted and brought to their countries of origin where they cannot get help since society, including their family members, strictly abide by traditions. Usually the family forces the girl to marry a relative chosen through an agreement made with the relative's parents.

 

Girls are usually beaten by their parents when they refuse to proceed with the marriage. If a girl gives in then seeks divorce, she could be murdered by her father or brother since she is considered to have committed an honor crime.

 

An anti-forced marriage law was recently issued in the U.K. stating that parents who force their children to marry could face up to two years in jail.

 

The new law also states that the victim’s friends or a even a police officer have the right to report a forced marriage.

[Ibtisam]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: How did I miss this thread.

 

Che, I will have you known I treat him very well, even cooked his traditional dishes a few times you know!! Not the normal raaliyo, but he is still alive

 

By the way: "Poor Bengali, What did Ibtisam done to you" Did you post this after a long day

[Che -Guevara]

Good question, how did you miss it.I wrote after getting an email from man of south Asian persuasion asking my advice on how to deal with abusive Somali espouses, he thought they were kinder than his kind.

 

I'm glad you are treating him well, now does he have sister, not for me but for McCheese

[Ibtisam]

^^^He has no sisters, brothers, or mum. His dad has two wifes back in his country. Sorry, he has a cousin, but she is not allowed to marry black men

[Jacaylbaro]

His dad has two wives ,,,, Hmmmmm

 

 

Like a father like a son ,,,,,,,,

[Ibtisam]

^^^I'm not waiting around long enough to find out We have a deal, he can marry how ever many he wants, he just has to be ready to give me my papers before he makes a move on them.