you3 Posted June 11, 2003 why do somalis mans are so bad to their lady when they get marrigeis to them with a weeks and plan the lads fulse the so mans are so bad Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captivating_SouL Posted June 11, 2003 huh? They varie..so you can't generalize all of em in one and secondly if you cant take the heat...get out of the kitchen..meaning if' your feed up bounce out then... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adna Posted June 11, 2003 Salaama calaykum Well let me see i can't say all mens are bad cuz you know there are bad women too. you can't judge mens are so bad cuz you don't wana be sexest. I think all what it takes is be treat him well and he will treat you as a queen.After marriage i don't think there should be such a problem, cuze man is like how you take care of him, if you only know what i mean. Much love untill we meet again.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted June 11, 2003 u2 if u have experienced this problem, its due to serveral conditions, i.e., couples who r clueless about each, meaning they didnt have enough time to know each other etc., however, if u notice successful couples, its mainly cuz they been together 4 while before marriage and r in sync! arrainged marriages is usually what bites the dust cuz it brings 2 ppl who never met before, thus, the saying u cant learn to swim when u is already in the ocean! famous mali saying ((who entered my oecan!!)) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UNDERGROUND_POET Posted June 11, 2003 i have no clue why we are all so weak,lazy and most of all ignorant! it hurts to be a SOMALI MALE! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG Moti Posted June 11, 2003 Sister Asraa well said .. nothing to add, i am still sad for that chicken... but sister well said ... mac mac to Asraa from all somali men.. i represent them and no one can disagree with that... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRUTH-SHALL-SET-U-FREE Posted June 11, 2003 I think what really makes this problems of women and men seem larger than life is that as a nation or a race we are very small, no more than 10 million ppl. And then how many of that are women and children, one is left with couple of millions of men. And meet thousands of rotten guyz, as might as well label them all as bad men. You know what i say, if u don't like what one resturant offers, there are plenty of other varieties you can have. So if most of somali men are bad in your opinion then looking into other ponds isn't a bad idea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted June 11, 2003 lol@Moti and his chicken . all i know r my father and my brothers. My father is the best husband and best father.Also my brothers r nice and funny like Moti . (they r somali males too ) So sis/bro no need to generize i am so sure ur father is great father too. salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Infatua.5an Posted June 11, 2003 Originally posted by OG_Girl: lol@Moti and his chicken . all i know r my father and my brothers. My father is the best husband and best father.Also my brothers r nice and funny like Moti . (they r somali males too ) So sis/bro no need to generize i am so sure ur father is great father too. salam OG...ur brothers are LIKE Moti miyaa??? Sheekaa heysaa!! i think i know otherwise (remember that place where PAL s TALK ... sorry didn't mean to lose track of the topic...You3...sista i think Men will only do WHAT U ALLOW..and relationships are a two way street..u both have to be dedicated..it shouldn't be a burden on 1 party.. be careful who u marry or befriend...there are twisted people out there Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted June 11, 2003 lol@Infatua.5an . what is wrong with my ....Moti :confused: i know that place u just mantioned by the way i have totaly different personality here .. <--wink wink . salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adna Posted June 12, 2003 Salaama calykum Thanks walaalkiis OG-MOTI,, for being standing by me,,, just kidding ok,,, any ways abowe I realy appreciated all that mac mac from all- somali men huh,,,LooL,,,, I accepted,, ok,,as long as you represented them wouldn't accepted from no one else,,,, nothing personally with my writting,,, cus waan luloonooyaa,,, i have learned this new word reacently,,,,,Much love to all my sis and bros,,,, un till we met one day... :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
runawayvirgin Posted June 12, 2003 Perfection is for Allah and only Allah..so it's natural that you'll encounter some bad ones and others that you'll try to live up to their goodness. Alxamdulilah, like OG_Girl, I was blessed with understanding, loving, fun brothers..that I'm actually envious of their girls so look around some more:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
proudson Posted June 12, 2003 no comment proudson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Senora Posted June 13, 2003 Originally posted by you3: why do somalis mans are so bad to their lady when they get marrigeis to them with a weeks and plan the lads fulse the so mans are so bad sweetie, maybe you should write in somali, you lost me after this word:::marrigeis Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRUTH-SHALL-SET-U-FREE Posted June 13, 2003 looooooooooool Princess_Sexy, you should read the other one in general. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites