Why do Somali parents?Shari Limits of beating

[sweet_gal]

Shari Limits of beating

It should be borne in mind at all times that beating is the final resort and measure that is adopted for rectifying a spoilt child. When the extreme occasion of administering this painful punitive measure does arise, it has to be carried out within the limits of Shariáh.

 

The first and foremost rule to remember is NEVER to punish a child in the state of anger or emotion. In this state, the intellect becomes clouded and proper reasoning is impossible. Calm down completely, lie down, drink water, take a walk. Thereafter, think twice or thrice, over the gravity of the situation, the extent of mischief and misbehaviour. A suitable form of discipline should be considered thereafter. The outcome of uncontrollable rage at the time of disciplining can be disastrous. Terrible damage or harm could be done. It could leave behind a lifelong regret.

 

 

So do ur selfs a favour don't be ur kids to the limit like somepeople do........especially somali people.

 

and to read more and stuff click here

 

http://www.jamiat.org.za/al-jamiat/v34children.html

 

Don't move this to Islam.....It's for everyone especally those who dont check the Islam forum

 

 

As a last resort, if the child is to be beaten, never strike the face, head or any other sensitive part of the body. Never inflict wounds, weals or bruises to any part of the body. This is forbidden in Islam. If these Sharée limits are not adhered to, the parent will be guilty of Dhulm (oppression), for which a heavy price will have to be paid on the day of Qiyaamat if pardon was not obtained from the oppressed. It must also be remembered that the forgiving of a minor is not valid; only after attaining puberty will the forgiveness of a child be valid.

[silent-sistah]

MashaAllah sister,

 

thats was beautfully explained,and researched, and it an issue that we really do face.

 

May Allah reward you for your efforts----Amiin