Chocolate and Honey Posted October 20, 2009 I was watching this talk show yesterday when I came across the most shocking phenomena: women who physically and mentally abuse their partners. The talk show host came (Tyra, known for her dramatic entrance) came out all freaked out and was like “every 37 seconds a man is abused in this country.” I was like hell no! I was expecting to watch a jealous wife/girlfriend who might’ve pushed or grabbed her man but Oh NO! This is like real abusers. And the men display the same characteristics of abused women display: lying to cover up the abuse, fear, shame? Don’t believe me? There are shelters for battered men! Read the link below. batterdmen.com I might get why women stay(they're scared, financially dependant on the men, insecure..take your pick)but why would a man stay in an abusive relationship? :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted October 20, 2009 Same reasons women stay. Low self-esteem - feel like they deserve it, some warped notion of "love". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FatB Posted October 20, 2009 -hehehe- see this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 20, 2009 i keep seeing battered somali women, specially here in london i say garaaac before uusan adiga kugaraacin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paragon Posted October 20, 2009 Nimanku ma dhufaanbaa? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faarax-Brawn Posted October 20, 2009 ALL men are battered. Some physically and others of course,mentally. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 20, 2009 lol@FB. tell your sisters, iyagaa garaacayee ps: dont you hate when somali women take maslaxo and faataxo. seriously ixsaanka usameynayso maxay tahay nin/islaan gacan kuu qaaday? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buuxo Posted October 20, 2009 I once met a batter somali man. It happens.But not to the same extent as Women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faarax-Brawn Posted October 20, 2009 ^Maslaxa kheyr bey lehda. Qofku mar wuu qaldami karaa however haduu ku celsho, maslaxa is wong. anyway, ragu waa la wada abuse gareeya. Dumarka badina psychologically ayeey ku batter gareyan,while some who are not the sharpest knives in the kitchen,use feedh iyo haranti. waa isla meehi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Allamagan Posted October 20, 2009 waxaani wax kabadanee nimankan ma gay-aal baa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted October 20, 2009 Advice for all the abused men. Just pack your stuff and move out. Get a divorce.fulay & naagba ninki ujabo kama kacaan Wale naagti gacan ila so aado inaan sabaaxad raaxada oga qaadi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jane Posted October 20, 2009 somewhere along the line they lost their dignity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolate and Honey Posted October 20, 2009 Lol@Fu FU Juxa, it is wrong either ways. Kaaga sii daran, men have it worse because they cant share it because it is ridiculous. Anyone who puts their hands on you should be taught a lesson!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted October 20, 2009 ^^ lol ruuxi shantaada ka celin sharci kaama celiyo...qofki gacan kula so aado sanka ka teeste Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolate and Honey Posted October 20, 2009 Fu Fu I needed your expertise on something horta. Does protein make you gain weigh? I started drinking shakes after workouts(which they the trainers recommend immedietly) and I notice that I feel heavier. Do you only drink them if you lifted weights or after ANY excercise say, running? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
