LayZie G. Posted July 14, 2008 No wonder why the divorce rate is so bloody high amongst muslim couples I forgot to comment on the above quote. There are number of factors contributing to the high divorce rate, and its as follows: Absentee fathers Welfare depency balwad(i.e khat) maturity infidelity Lack of communication(nowadays, people naxariis ma garanayaan) and list goes on and on, but working mothers have nothing to do with the problems facing today's couples. However, I agree that some women prefer to stay home and raise their children. Lately, some of the very same women waxa ku qasban iney shaqeeyaan because ninkooda can't fulfill his duties as a husband/father and be the sole provider. That said, wallaalo, I ask of you to take the time to get all your facts before you start putting the blame solely on our hard working sisters everywhere.(i.e Black, hindu, white, indho yar, latinos) POWER TO MY SISTERS EVERYWHERE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 LoL Naden...thanks LoL Haneefah and paragon you 2 make me laugh, Haneefah, thanx for the wlc hunno Layzie G, how you mean 'we have come along way and have invested far too much to pay any mind to the likes of you'. ..Sounds like a personal attack Anyway sis I respect your views, it's your life, do as you please I just personally refuse to be thrown into the battlefield of work, where we must compete with men to take their place or share their positions, when there is no need to do so and the interests of society as a whole do not require it. I refuse to become some cheap commodity that is fought over by the greedy capitalists, or some gaudy doll whose company is enjoyed by immoral so-called men. I'd rather be at home catering to my husband, looking after my children and worshipping my lord. The prophet (saw) said 'If I were to order anyone to proterate to anyone else, I would have ordered women to prostrate to their husbands' Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 I wasn't putting ALL the blame on women walaalo, I was merley stating the fact that, women going out to work is amongst the many reasons why marriges tend to fail. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naden Posted July 14, 2008 Bella, where have you been working?!! I don't remember the last time I was a gaudy doll or a cheap commodity in a workplace. Sounds deliciously depraved. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 Ma bad, i'm not saying 'ALL', wan ka xumahay, as i said ealier ..if sisters work in specialised areas such as befits their feminine nature and will not compromise with their deen then go ahead, naden, walaalo are you telling me that some sisters don't work in such enviroments? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naden Posted July 14, 2008 Bella, I think one is more likely to become a 'gaudy doll' and a 'cheap commodity' if going after a job fitting their 'feminine nature'. I suggest training or education, instead. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 LoooL, are you being serious walaalo? A women must remain a women, because with this quality, she can find happines or bring it to others.Sorry but I choose not to pay any attention to the nonsense calls of jaahiliyah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted July 14, 2008 ^Pray and tell.. What exactly makes a woman a woman? :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Castro Posted July 14, 2008 ^^^^ Can I answer that? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naden Posted July 14, 2008 ^ That which brings happiness to others, mostly located between the belly and the knees. And some other places of significantly less importance. Those jaahiliyah chicks ruined the party for everyone. :mad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted July 14, 2008 Welcome first of all sis. I agree to some extend with your initial post, I also agree with what LG said, one can work and raise her family, it's all about having the right balance and attitude walal. Originally posted by Bella*Princesa: A women must remain a women ^ here is where is where aan ku kufay, what exactly does that mean bal? Edit: lol Blessed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted July 14, 2008 Castro, Okay, if you must but no biology. LMAO @ Naden. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 Blessed, as for your question 'what makes a women a women?' I'm not talking about any women, i'm talking about the muslim women... 1)She worships her lord 2)She takes care of herself(good appearance ect) 3)She takes care of her mind by persuing knowledge 4)She perfoms acts of worship 5)She treats her parents and elders with respect 6)She is obident to her husband and dosen't neglect his needs 7)She understand the great responsibility that she has towards her children 8)She has a good attitude towards others 9)She does not imitate the men 10)She calls others to islam... and plenty more Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Arawello Posted July 14, 2008 LoooooooL@Naden Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xiinfaniin Posted July 14, 2008 lol@Naden! Guri carfoon iyo cunto macaan is what makes a married woman a great wife! I dont want to hazzard a guess what makes a single woman a waman! Gabdhaan Bella la leeyahay wallee balayyaa wadata...little does she know in meeshaan gabdha murqo leh joogaan Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
