Khayr Posted August 17, 2003 Salaamz Just wanted to ask the male nomads in here. What age do you think that a women would be too old for you to think about marrying? Say you're 30 and a 27 yr old Halimo comes around your way, would you snatch her up? You know a womens body does change dramatically as she gets older. If you had a choice btwn the 27yrs old or a 20yrs old, who would you choose (taking into account hypothetically, that you are attracted to both of them). I have a friend and he married a 23yr old sister and told me not too long ago that he would have prefered an 18yr old. I was shocked to here that but a yr or so today, I can understand why he said that. Most of my married friends have married young sistahs (18-20). Now I'm no socioligist but from my experience age has been a factor in terms of martial success. .....Yes,its only my observation and am not saying its necessarily true for ALL COUPLES on EARTH. (LADIES, PLEASE NO REPLIES TO THIS POST. DON'T MEAN TO BE RUDE BUT LET THE MEN SPEAK WITHOUT THEM FEARING RETAILATION!!!!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mindstate Posted August 17, 2003 I'm sorry, but your question gives you a bad name Saqiir suujiye lol j/k Anyway, when I was 17, I had an very hot affair with this 28-y/o woman who lived upstairs from my apartment, and man, I was head-over-heels in love. She was SO smart, funny, sexy, the whole deal. It went on for almost a year. It's strange.. Now a days I usually see guys going out with girls 5-4 years younger then they are. Why do all the girls get the older guys? Why can't it be backwards? I'm 19 and the women I'm "dating" are mostly older than me...a few younger, but mainly I stick with experience and maturity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macalin Posted August 17, 2003 A woman is a woman! wether shes 40/20---she gonna be a woman!---- for me when i get 30 and i don marry-----Then my woman shall be at least 5yrs younger! macslaama waraa..Mindstate--maxaa kuu geey single motherkas?--damn nuccca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mindstate Posted August 17, 2003 Originally posted by Lakkad: waraa..Mindstate--maxaa kuu geey single motherkas?--damn nuccca saxiibow hooyade aan somali oga so tagay that's why i was dattin' with single mom ...--ciyaalka caanahooda aa wax laishubaayay .... lol Lakkad sxbow yeysan kugu dhicin Odayga bidaarta leh hala galbiyo marka inta eysan bidaar kugalin meesha kaguurso Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macalin Posted August 17, 2003 saxiibow hooyade aan somali oga so tagay that's why i was dattin' with single mom ...--ciyaalka caanahooda aa wax laishubaayay .... ------------loool waraaa GOT MILK AA KADHACDAY haye?..wheres Ur moustache? subxaanka waraa-aroos is ****** /me am not an ***** !.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bachelor Posted August 17, 2003 As far as i am concerned, i will go for the older women always (as long as she is in good shape). Here is what a good freind of mine told me, women are like wine, the older wine has better quality. By the way i am not wine drinker at all. PS: They know how to treat a man as simple as that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
somalialover Posted August 17, 2003 what?????????? Allthough, I did date some woman who are fewer older then me, it never come into my mind marrying woman older then me, also I do not like flying girls like 17, 16, in short, atleat she must be younger than me or same age as I am. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladiif Posted August 17, 2003 few yrs younger than me but if she is the Ideal women but same age as I'm and we love each other, I still dont see the problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kiLLaflows Posted August 17, 2003 It doesnt really matter as when it comes to love, age doesnt matter.. My wife is 4 years older than me. Can anyone top that? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted August 19, 2003 Personally, I would marry a young lady who is in the 18-23 age range due to the fact that I am looking for a lady who has not been in luuq after luuq. I want a clean MOT so I got to have her history. The younger she is, the less the history!. I cant imagine myself settling down with a woman who will have her first child in her late twenties after all the mileage she has gone through in life!. Can you?. :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khayr Posted September 5, 2003 I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and his family found him a sistah. He thought that the sistah was 23 and he came to find out that she's 29. So he didn't go for her. He's in his 30's so it should be ok, right? Well, he said that if the sistah is that old, she probably has developed her 'individualism' and doesn't want to be held back by any hubby or family. She is a career women. I thought about what he said and I agree somewhat b/c the older u get and u spend it persuing school and a career, the more u cherish u're accomplishments and individualism. You don't want someone else to 'cramp your style'. I saw this in myself and when I moved back with my family. I wanna here what some of the other nomads like Darman, Underdog, OG Moti, Jamaal etc. think about this age thing. Fi Amanallah Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grad Student Posted September 5, 2003 this whole thing about women, their age and marriage suitability seems to be universal. though somalis and arabs alike take a bit too far. I, personally prefer a younger, firmer and shorter woman than I. It's what I like. and yeah! with enormous booty. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted September 5, 2003 Socrates i exactly the one u need! my sista. she 17 has all you qualities, so hommey get the 411 from me! i gotta warned though, she one tough cookie!lol.. to me, i like older women! they have experience and that is welcomed every corner of the earth! i dont understand why african men like really young ones. i have come across so many situation where a bra married young one and she just missed him up like crazy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haaruun Posted September 5, 2003 nin waliba Inanta uu ka helo ayuu guursadaa...what's is this age thing...and physically there's no mutch diffrence between 18yr old and 23yr old women..(my opinion) war nagadaa ninyahow oo caruurta abiyuuska ka daaya Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Curly Posted September 5, 2003 You sexist egomanical philandering sociopaths! You should all be shammed, talking about woman like they're cattle! Really I didn't expect this on SOL! I thought you were all educated men, well thanks for proving me wrong...and you wonder why you don't have a Men's Forum! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites