Queen Arawello Posted October 23, 2009 Societal pressure and seeing all my friend getting married is making me wonder if I am behind schedule. What the right time for a woman to marry in this day and age. Our parents might have married in their early 20s but it doesnt suprise me when I see a new bride at the tender age of 30+. I am beginning to worry if I going to make the mark and get married before my biological watch malfunctions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 23, 2009 Lol Well Mariah Carey got married really late, so have no worries. I think the perfect age is 35yrs old. Then you can say you've had the best of both worlds. pluz it is only faire you clean your mums kitchen longer than some random dude Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faarax-Brawn Posted October 23, 2009 ^Mariah Carey did get married in her early 20s alright Poster, The sensible thing to say will be "when u see the right person"/ I am not sensible so,i will probably say: "get ur freak on" and get married already Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 23, 2009 ^^Ooops I meant the 2nd time around, the first time was child abuse, was she not 15 or something? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ducaysane Posted October 23, 2009 If you can, The right time to marry is I think markaad qooqdo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 23, 2009 ^^So how come you did not marry when you was like 5 or something?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted October 23, 2009 Societal pressure and seeing all my friend getting married is making me wonder if I am behind schedule. Societal pressures? And all my friends are getting married?? What the hell. Why don’t you take a long walk to self discovery and stop acting like a mere sheep. If I’m left behind-lord have mercy. What the right time for a woman to marry in this day and age. Our parents might have married in their early 20s but it doesnt suprise me when I see a new bride at the tender age of 30+. :rolleyes: I am beginning to worry if I going to make the mark and get married before my biological watch malfunctions. Ohh dear! Why don’t you freeze your eggs and perish the thought Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted October 23, 2009 ^^^Lol, CL not everyone is happy with the idea of freezing your eggs for later use. Besides it is wrong on religious grounds. You either make the choice you are going to get married early enough and have kids (Inshallah allah)or make your peace with no kids, don't marry and get on with life without calcal. But freezing your eggs is not the way to go, pick one of the natural roots. Adiguna stop misleading people- it is NOT an option to Muslims P.s. Even if it was allowed in Islam, the success rate is too low to rely on it, so many things can and may go so wrong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolate and Honey Posted October 23, 2009 Cut the girl some slacs ppl. Seeing all your friends getting married is stressful in this society. To answer the question, When you find the right person or you'll rush, waste time, become unhappy and miserable and divorce. So chill! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UZTAAD Posted October 23, 2009 30 as far as you're not the wrong side of the 30 you do not have to worry. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted October 23, 2009 Originally posted by Ducaysane: If you can, The right time to marry is I think markaad qooqdo. answer is forget about ur friends and get marry ASAP, first comes first served ka dhig hawsha and u will get there in no time, aamiin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Geel_jire Posted October 23, 2009 I concur with Ducaysane intaadan halis galin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nin-Yaaban Posted October 23, 2009 Intaadan ilmo dhalin... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted October 23, 2009 Ibti- must you dampen my spirit woman? Of course freezing ones eggs is not for the timid or ……but it’s an option nonetheless. Women can store enough to outsource should the need arise/use it as an investment or saving by selling it should the need arise am telling you the options are endless …and my dear that is an option worth having. By the by I’m still waiting for the chapter/verse/hadith in the Quran that prohibits this. Until then I refuse accept “wrong on religious grounds” claims or be accused of misleading women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted October 23, 2009 CL, be da first to open bangi ukkumaha lagu keydiyo, great business adventure, profit wise! Intaadan ilmo dhalin... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
