The Marriage Requirement of the 'New' Somali Man?

[MZanzi]

LooL rudy wale mucjiso ayaa tahay

[underdog]

Rudy is right. Its not like going to a car dealership and picking the options to make your perfect car.

 

This is a whole other human being with their own thought processes and opinions and emotional luggage and good/bad past experiences.

 

the best anyone can hope for is an open mind, patience and flexibility. Then you have the rest of your lives to work out the ever-changing balance that makes a relationship work.

 

It's been said "A married couple are neither friends nor enemies".

 

Or as semi-wise old guy put it: Husband and wife are like 2 opposing political parties trying to run a country.

[Malika]

^Have you ever thought of becoming an "agony uncle"?

[underdog]

As a matter of fact....

 

I had a blog for that same purpose. It started of well untill it became a haven for retards and socially handicapped individuals.

 

So I "split the stock", started 2 'paying' sites....One for awkward guys to "Score the hottie in one try" and the Other one for harlequin reading women to "Find true love in a sea of false hope"

 

After I while I questioned the morality of the endeavor and decided to leave it alone.

[Ibtisam]

^^^LOOOOOOL, HAHA that cracked me up! LOL

 

Malika He sounds like he would beat them all silly, let alone play the role of agony uncle.

[underdog]

Originally posted by *Ibtisam*:

Malika He sounds like he would

beat them all silly

, let alone play the role of agony uncle.

Ibti,

I get this feeling that I scare you...you're always saying I'm angry or I'm going to beat someone up.

 

Did I assault you in a dream or something?

[Ibtisam]

LOOL @ Do I scare you; no, Just an impression.

 

P.s. Two times equals always miya. :cool:

[NGONGE]

Rudy keeps tying and untying that knot like a bloody sailor.

 

Hayat, I am going for the legal age, dear. I hear some 20 yr olds in your part of the world are not even allowed to drive cars and stuff. If you're not allowed to drive a car how could you be allowed to drive a man crazy?

[Nagwa]

i still dont get it, is it what man want for a women or what a woman want for a man.

[Ms DD]

Originally posted by NGONGE:

Rudy keeps tying and untying that knot like a bloody sailor.

 

I was wondering the same thing. But then a thought occur to me..why go for marriage all the time, and not just have a good time?

 

Rudy is gardheere surwaalgaab bloke with a penchant for girls who dont put out without nikah. MaashaAllah Rudy. Allah ha kuu siyaadiyo

[Kool_Kat]

^LOOOOOOL...Wax waalan...

 

Rudy is the man, and many can learn a thing or two from him when it comes to women...

[MAXIMUS POWERS]

Lots of good points!

 

Being the quasi-farax that i am! I prefer a nice little xalimo to look after me and give me TLC and a bit more. having read almost 10 books on trying to understand the female psyche! i have come to the conclusion that maybe i am not just good enough for Somali women! , for Somali woman are beyond any type of categorisations and no book will ever encapsulate them into a 'nutshell' made and ready for delivery after a few sweet lines!

 

IBZ if you know any sisters please let me know! I don't ask for much except all of the aforementioned in the list LOL!!

[sheherazade]

Spring(the season of lust) comes round earlier and earlier every year.

[Faheema.]

^LoL, must be due to global warming.

 

ps. welcome back, hope all is well

[Valenteenah.]

MARX, you don't ask for much, do you?