Can you really change your man? (And should you even try?)

[lovely me]

Would I want a man to

try and change me?

Absolutly not!! I think

that part of loving someone

is respecting them

for what they are.

If you can't respect

that then you should

really take a good

look at your

relationship with that person :eek: .........I think today alot of people are self centered.Sure we all want honesty,sincerity,compassion,and a genuine love. But who do we want it for :confused: ? It can't be that we want it just for ourselves.

[Macalin]

Lovely YOU!,...good Q sista!

 

But then again, they say no one is perfect and i don see nothing wrong with teaching someone good habits/deeds.

 

Say for example if urman chews jaad!..and thas the only problem he has, then u as a wife have every right to make him Quit!..or even better u can love him for tha!..

 

My point is..i don see anything wrong with showing someone you care abt, to do GOOD things,and if they cant HEY wat the heck!..ya feel me!!

[Hibaad]

Well i wldn't wanna cus its changing u as well as u have to put up with things u don't like while u thinking i can change him.

[QalQaali]

Luvly u.

A word of advice don't fixed it if it ian't broken..

Ladies u always want more then u have that s ur problem.

...

Kuma gabine Hay goyne am kuma guhaadsheen ee(Faysal cumar Mushteeg)

[nuuna]

I Actually like my man the way he is....

I used to feel that way, but honestly speaking, I trully like the way he is from the way he makes me laugh to the little rebellious temper tantrums he displays. But I feel like this I wouldn't want anyone coming into my life to try and change me. So who am I to put this on him. By both of us being spiritual we both pray to gether and discuss things so our relationship is very rare. Don't get me wrong, we weren't always this way. but I got tired of fighting so I began to pray to GOD about changing this man and it worked. I learned to stop fussing and complaining and to pray more......LADIES! TRY IT BEFORE YOU KNOCK IT!!! I am so happy the man I am with.

[Changed]

am working on changing him

........LOOOOOOOOOOL..

he is not responding to the :confused:

behaviors that am trying to teach him

 

yow that up there was a joke leavya man da way he is that is what makes him interesting if he is what u want him to be he will get too boring

[Ibtisam]

^^^I think this sister got CHANGED herself since 2003.

 

I think this is a interesting topic which never got a full answer

[Pujah]

Rule of thump: change before you get changed

[NGONGE]

Originally posted by Ibtisam:

^^^I think this sister got CHANGED herself since 2003.

 

Xaaji nuune maxaad o caayaasa, qasacad yahay?

[Legend of Zu]

^^^ ha ha ha ha...I think Nuune can sue Ibti for defamation, blah blah...etc etc

[Paragon]

nuuna:

I learned to stop fussing and complaining and to pray more......LADIES! TRY IT BEFORE YOU KNOCK IT!!! I am so happy the man I am with.

Aaaw! Such a good girl. I am melting with adoration already

[nuune]

Ngonge looooool, tell ibti, xaal baa laga rabaa.

 

Cirdey , gabadhaas waa inaan raadinaa niyahow

 

 

PS:, Didn't know there was lady called nuuna in SOL, how come she escaped on my sight, should have bombed into her, still can

 

 

nuuna aka Runaway bride, dear, whereever u r, come

[Ibtisam]

LOOOOL @ you guys. I think Nuune owes me, I found him his very own Nuuna!!!

[Jacaylbaro]

Some people are really bored here ,,,,,,,