king_450 Posted May 25, 2003 Well i am responding to the lady who asked why some somali men always say i love you when they meet a new person? good question but the reality is sis one must be humble to be said i love you when it meant its content , because as a man or women if one can't express their true feeling then we all at loss, i myself always express my love when i find the true individual.so it is no shame to be called i love you, it is you who will decide then if that love is true or not, so accept the loving and care shown to you, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted May 25, 2003 Salaam there: well, don't get me wrong what i said is to say some one i love first time u meet them that is really rediculious.What i am saying is: Take your time and know the person then say i love you . thanx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted May 25, 2003 well said sis and i do agree with you, so i think maybe we need an understanding b/w us so that one must never aggrevate the other individual, but sis your point well taken, it takes one to advise . So i respect that and thank you for your heartworming reply. take care and good luck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wardi Posted May 25, 2003 love is something comes naturally ,if you said i love you , your action should match then that perons will realize your love Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted May 25, 2003 love this love that we'll never get anywhere discussing love so can we kill it and bury it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted May 25, 2003 well if we don't talk about Love then we do not need to talk at all, it is a very important aspect in our lives, one must however differntiate when to say it and when not to,so we just can't burry it , we have to talk about, because love is the only way we can solve any issues around your home and around the world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cant_Remember Posted May 25, 2003 The first day 'I love you' means I really want to get into bed with you!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted May 25, 2003 somebody enlighten me plz, why it is the same when i said i love you to a lady, you said it meant that you want to put her in bed and have sex. If that is the definiton of true love then i think you belong to a different category of individuals, becuase i do not see that way, if i say i love you some one , i really mean it, but i have never heard some one went to a lady and said i love you, then can i have a sex with you, what is that? are u crazy or u from another world? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted May 25, 2003 salaam alaikom: Brother king_450 you got my vote!. what kind of love that makes you say "i love you" coz u want the girl in your bed! that is really cheap!. I don't need that kind of love ..that i call animal desire not humanbeen desire. Cant_Remember Man you don't need to say "i love you" just use short cut and say "can i have you in my bed for tonight" !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cant_Remember Posted May 25, 2003 king & OG girl, my above two cents on the topic amounted to saying (of course in a plain language)that there is something wrong with an expression of love that is based on the first encounter.People should get to know each other before they start loving. And I thought the topic was why Somali men use the word easily. It was only that which I was commenting on, so you shouldn't have assumed it's one I employ myself!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sophist Posted May 27, 2003 love is an illusion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted May 28, 2003 love does not have a exact definition. Because of this people have their own meanings for it. What one person thinks of love as right another thinks its wrong. So what love is in a nutshell is an abstract concept Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Filsaneey Posted May 28, 2003 LOOL I agree with Pyromaniac_Pixie when you come to SOL love has a diff meanings. "What one person thinks of love as right another thinks its wrong." That is exatly how this people are. PS. Pixie whata sign u got there very funny though Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted May 29, 2003 ^^ thanx I got it off one of my shirts Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
