Hibo Posted February 28, 2002 Hello brothers and sisters i hope this post reaches u in good health. Ok 2day i wanted to ask u all why is it know days somali brothers think playing games in a realationship is cool. Its a thing i really don't get most girls say the same thing that guys play games way too much and yet the games they play are really stupid agmes that anyone can clearly see they doing it. Maybe its cus they trying to taste the person they dealing with or something but it doesn't work so can anyone tell me whyyyyy they do it. peace out Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
layla Posted February 28, 2002 luula sis i am wondering the same thing too, these guys think its cool to play games, but to be honest it MAKES them LOOK stupid. Ihave one advice for all the guys out there that think by palying games while dating its cool LEARN HOW TO DATE A GIRL FIRST BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR SELF APPEAR stupid so give up for your sake. Onother thing guys dont think by playing games you wont get caugth, we are not stupid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted March 1, 2002 Hi, girls i do not understand the game you talking about but i am sure u girls play vicious bloody games far more than guys. another thing is that it is your paranoias make u believe that guysplay games games. But then, come we ready tech us how to date!!! we ready learn Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted March 1, 2002 [This message has been edited by JamaaL-11 (edited 03-01-2002).] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted March 4, 2002 hhehehehehehehehehehehe @ U ladies I don't know ... may be they do't know how to act... i wld love to know tho. why aren't the brothers representing their case here! the qusetion is WHY do ya'll play stupid games that make ya'll look stupid? some sisters play those games too ..... may be ya'll are too genuine .. i don't know. am not helping <img src=" "]http://www.somaliaonline.com/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm28.gif" alt="" /> sorry Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted March 5, 2002 Guys, stop playing games. That's all you gotta say Qaliluula. Yeah...sometimes guys play too much, huh? No wonder everytime I try to get wit a girl, they come around wit their little sissy azz games and take my girlz , you know...I dont appreciate dat...lool... Anywayz, to answer your kuweshton, you gotta tell the guy "DONT PLAY GAMES WIT ME," before you get serious wit him. And if you think this wont work, PLAY YOUR OWN GAMES. Who said you can't play da game?...lol 1 Luv Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted March 5, 2002 My question to you is "What is a game and what isn't?" It took me a long time to realize this (I was pretty dense in this area for a LONG time), but attractive women play games almost ALL THE TIME when you first meet them. And if you think about it, THEY HAVE TO. What would you do if you were a woman and you had men approaching you several times a day, every day, week after week, month after month, year after year... YOU'D LEARN HOW TO USE SHORTCUTS (translated: GAMES) to filter out the exceptional guys from the not-so-exceptional ones (translated: ATTRACTIVE GUYS from the WUSSES). If acting like an attractive man is a "game" to you (in other words it doesn't come "naturally") then keep playing the game. It's better to play the game and keep the woman than not play the game and not keep her. Check your personal values when in doubt. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blood_thug Posted March 11, 2002 yo i jus' wanna respond to your "statment" in matter. You quoted the quetion in a general case sweety and i really dont appreciate that. I'm a thug ya....i do blunt ya...and i F'ed p*ssy ya....but thats the past yusuf. I played games cuz most G's wanted them...they acted like they wanted to be used for one time yo...der fault not mine. I got a sweety 2 call my own now but she's in T.O. I realised before we got together that she was'nt into dat sh!t. basically I dont play games...my boys dont play games, so why would you ask..."why do somali guys play games" when little are iggnorant and obserd enough to do dat sh!t....namean? MY POINT: If a girl does'nt wanna play games, den dont run to dat nigga, it just shows you want da game yo...fo'real B. A nigga can only change himself, a p*ssy cant change sh!t...ya heard? a d!ck is like a gun...theres always a reason for that ONE SPECIAL target...aka HOE..lol OnE Luv yoll Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyFatima Posted March 11, 2002 Salaama All, Why? don't know but all I know is... They Got thier game from a woman .....lol that is right sis, it's our fault! we taught them those games and now they playing it on us. Some of us play way too much games then 'em Fellaz truth be told!... Personally, I think Games are for kids.. We grown-ups don't need that shi*t ! honesty is the best policy! just be honest with your partner and if you don't feel 'em tell them up front no need to waste his/her time.........but remember whatever good or bad that you do to someone has it's consequences!...what goes around comes around...Xuux Ma'salaama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ONKOD Posted March 12, 2002 I think both men and women play games no matter how old they get. Games are played in different environments ( business, relantionships, etc). As long as you know where your game is headed. But whoever is playing the game should be prepared for the outcome, it can be very ugly. It is not always a win win situation. I don't know if you watched the movie 2 can play the game, it really gives you a clear picture that at the end somebody is going to loose the game and that person could very well be you! Play safe! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted March 13, 2002 LadyFatima ya damn right! now who got game? we got game, they got game! lol Remember i said one time that girls love to paly hide and seek? thats what i meant but now it seems "laga bartaa laga badshey" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted March 15, 2002 The original post WAS really unspecific...what I'd love to know is EXACTLY what sort of game we're talking here. Is it the not phoning game?...the blowing hot/cold?...the incitement of jealousy (look how many other options I've got thang!)...probably all of these! Have any of y'all used them?...and did you find them effective at all?...I know I did...works like Frelling charm! For me, the games I mentioned are the penultimate jungle survival kit...no liaison functions without these...of course it can work if you play it straight...I meant function in the sense of looking after number one! How do you guys handle your links?...do you have a standard operating procedure...I know I do!...makes things hat much more spicy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Honesita Posted March 15, 2002 I think games are just spices for a healthy relationship.....a little xawaaji and basbaas makes the food taste better right...!!! Yeah its really ugly when ur guy plays games on u.....like not call u......tell u he'll call back and dont do it.......make other plans when u expect to go out with him..........over doing it is loud and clear: "I DONT WANT YOU NO MORE".....but u should be smart enough to know....when is it extreme and when is it a little too much....!!! Plus......u gotta learn how to play those little games sometimes......u r not supposed to over do it either....!!! And please dont play games and not plan for the outcomes......lord i did that couple of weeks ago.....right after I watched 2 can play that game.....the movie was good...so good that i wanted to try it......but i did not plan for the outcome......!!! Ameenah.....u were not a good help by the way.....lol....!!! Anywayz........we should all stop playin' those games and start playing LAADHUU....(Parcheesi)...!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Libaax-Sankataabte Posted March 15, 2002 Honesita, daamn, ya killing me ....that was good. Another piece of your honesty huh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faahie Posted March 16, 2002 Hey nomads, i just came across this topic and was compelled to coment.As to my comment i think in every game there are spectotors,funs and at some instances cheerleaders.Well this kind of game also is not an exceptional cause ive been a witness to many cases whereby this kind of game was bein monitored by others than the players themselves. I am tellin u they really give the game so much a fuel that they end up spoiling it.In the other end you find the very players totaly innocent and misinformed.within same scope iam sorry to mention that this is more prevalent with the ladies more than the guys am sure u all cant dinie this cause its been behaviourly proven that women do have time to anlyse on such cases than men do.With this few remarks hope that all can judge who plays this game the most and not who plays it in genaral cause also guys have some scenes to act. WASSALAAM ------------------ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
