Ibtisam Posted June 28, 2009 ^^Who me or Aaliya?? If you was talking to me, there is a time and place for everything, looks like she found out on her own anyway IT is sunday xabibty. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted June 28, 2009 The dude is married, and expecting his first child. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 28, 2009 ouch that's crazy...How could you have not know that?? he told you that when he took u out? and expected u to say what? hey i dnt mind being the second wife ur too good to pass by loooool? am sorry....inshallah wax ka fiican baad helasa... salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted June 28, 2009 I am actually relieved, Alhamdullah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted June 28, 2009 Girl, did you not do any research before hand!!! Thats what brothers and family is for, fuutaad faar haa ku soo geeyin before he even gets a hello in!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted June 28, 2009 What had made me angry the most is that I was introduced to the guy by someone close. funny, how could they miss such important details. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 28, 2009 oo wow maybe that person who introduced u guys did not know the guy all that well.. if a guy is married and expecting a baby why would he go out with a girl? shouldn't he be home helping his wife? that sucks..and pisses me off..my heart just goes out to his wife.. salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted June 28, 2009 There so many girls willing to go out and marry those kind guys, thats why he felt brave enough to tell her and expect her to say, Oh okay. Bloody creepy. I'm sure he'll find a few that don't mind or don't care. Justice next time give them a list of questions before you even consider wasting your time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 28, 2009 it scares me to know theres such people out there. At least this man was honest abt it... am sure it did not cross her mind to ask such question given that someone she knew introduced them. but yeah always do your own questioning... ibti i believe in the philosophy of ...mid haduu mid kasoo tagay adna bari uu ka dhaqaajinaya salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MAXIMUS POWERS Posted June 28, 2009 I dont know what is worse, cheating husbands or the women who entertain their advances! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUSTICE Posted June 28, 2009 I'm happy that he is married cause I was looking for a fault in him, I was gona say Sorry dude you aint my type, so he made it easy for me. Alhamdullah. there is no next time, No dating policy is the way from now on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 28, 2009 like i said before dating has different meaning to it. If we mean western dating thats like out of the question. But, getting to know the person is the way. next time imagine you just accept the person who comes and then you find out like now he was married..maxaad sameeni? adaa cirka roob ku og say somalidu dhahdo.. make sure you get to know the person even take 3 of your friends along if you want. I really dnt care find a way.. salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MAXIMUS POWERS Posted June 28, 2009 Originally posted by Imtithal: ...make sure you get to know the person even take 3 of your friends along if you want. I really dnt care find a way.. Goodness Gracious Me!! what era are you living in?? The best solution to dating these days is whats colloquially known as 'linkages' amongst somali people. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted June 28, 2009 Imtithal I often see you issuing your own little fatwahs about dating-what is okay and what is not. I think it is best you say this is my view, for certainly from a Islamic point of view waaxas maa jirin. You will get sins for making somehting that is haram normal and acceptable. Getting to know wa maaxay in Islam, and it does not make it okay if you take your friends and he brings his friends, that is called group dating and even worse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted June 28, 2009 aaliyah adiga marki lagu shukaan sanaayo do you take 3 of ur friends wale tht kinda of shukaansi is like a football game 2 lines man plus the refree and the two teams playing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
