Iz it me or doez noone seem 2 realise that Somalia woz affected by the tidal wave? News Programmes dnt bother sending any reporters there or nething, dnt recognise that we lost ppl aswell. :mad: gets on my nerves...

So if a could unread a book and read it for the first time again it would be... 100 years of solitude by Gabriel Garcie Mar... Gosh i don't know how to spell his name but he is such a beautiful writer. Has anyone read it? wot did you think? Anyway your turn nomads

Hay Somalians how u all doing? Imagine you could unread a book, so on some nice day you strut right into your local library (obviously turning some heads as you breeze on by) anyway which book would you walk out with (and probably get fined for not returning on time?) Gosh I have confused myself! :confused: What is your fav book? That is all Iam trying to say really me first me first

Peace Nomads, i forgot my password and i haven't been here for ages...loads of new names anyway just a question for you ppl; So i wanna ask where in the world do you see as your "final destination" as they say. The place where you intend to raise your kids inshallah and just generally live out the second part of your life. Will you stay where you are or will you move? ahhh its nice 2B back

Damn where did you find so many friends? :eek:

Okay going on from that previous tread "what turns you on in a man?" I know that everyone has lists about what they would like in a potential partner, and its so easy to say oww let me see. tall, good looking, blah blah, good shoes!! (Come on he can always buy new shoes) Anyway what i wanna know is would these mental lists evaporate if you met someone that did not meet anyone of your supposedly "essential" aspects. Or would you never meet say a short guy because well he is short and you could never consider him potential partner. So what iam asking is(in a drawn out way but better late that never) How flexible are you with all these requirements? Would you discard them all if you met someone that proved to be inessential? Or would that simply not happen because your determined to meet your "standards" that you set. Okay share your thoughts ppl of Somalia.

Damn Tall Beard brother, nice manner of doing things Some guys look so comfortable like they are so at ease with the world and with themselves and I tink that is soooo nice. I seen a couple of brothers exactly like that and needless to say they were very happy moments in my sheltered life. There you go, I told your my requirments now I think you owe me a brother...

Firstly why are you posting your male dilemma on the womans forum? poor gal I feel for her, I can't believe your even thinking about dumping her because your little buddies don't like her, so what. :mad: Anyway the choice is yours, if you serious about her then ask her to marry you and if your not then its probably best to release the poor gal. Next :rolleyes:

We asked my mom SO many times to reveal the story of their marriage but my mom gets this look on her face like she is trying to desperately conceal a smile...I think that says more than any words

I want some somali advice. Ok i drink tea like China and India are going to dissappear and there is going to be no tea bags life on the earth. :eek: So I went to Somalia and i took a big bag of tea bags but I was staying in Buroa and they milk it with POWDER MILK!! :mad: I wasn't there for long. Anyways I tried to give up tea and MY GOODNESS cue the headache from Jahanum...damn it was bad... So now Iam back on my drug. I have been told it's because of the caffine content any1 else tried given up Caffine and done it? When my exams over over Iam going to begin where I left off, talking of exams... I bet go...

Lakkad, It is artificial to to pose a question and ask for it not to be related to the circumstances that gave rise to it... Would it be better in your eyes if they had said nothing? It is almost like you are saying don't use Allah's (swt) name beacuse iam muslim and I don't want to be involved in this complicated and uncomfortable situation. It seems to me that we are romanticing our deen, Islam is about peace but us muslims both we in the west leading a comfortable and previledged life and those in Iraq and Palestine have a right to defend themselves. You have to realise Islam is involved because a great deal of this war has to do with attacking Islam. And why are we so concerned about this mercenary who wanted to exploit the situation in Iraq to make his fortune? Why are we not concerned that a muslim country has been invaded and that 10,000 Iraqi's have been killed. Your anger seems misdirected to me.

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But is the solution to moving back home? I really don't know what is going to happen :confused:

Okay sista's tym to clear up some misunderstandings. First this is NOT me. I would absolutely hate to be in such a situation :eek: Alhamduaillah my life is very simple, eat, sleep, occasionally hoover... 2nd the guy makes it clear that he does NOT intend to leave his wife for you, so forget that idea... 3rd I think i would be like some alien and go for it!! Would I? Oh my gosh I just don't know but it would be a decision I would have to come to...I wouldn'tt simply rule it out. Ok. thanks for listening...Roll on the summer Cant wait inshallah its going to be brill...

Salaam brother The first place you thought of was SOL ahhhhh well no pressure then... Ok to tell you the truth i was expecting a bit more, I thought she was going to begin having feelins for the guy or something...It doesn't seem like a great betrayal to me...especially since he is in love with the second girl now...seems like the guy has a whole lotta love...I don't really understand why the girl is so distressed, this is what she planned and wanted it seems as if things have worked out the way she wanted. I guess if they had quite intimate converstaions and she had revealed things about herself and vice versa then its quite an awkward situation. Ok perhaps its not as simplistic as i first thought...But ok it's not an ideal situation but if she steps backs and looks at the big picture, her friend and this guy are getting alone, hopefully getting married, she is out the picture, the past is the past, I would say to her don't say anything, perhaps this is the way things were mearnt to be. So just get on with life, don't say anything and make dua for yourself and them two. Say to her stop stressing sis... maybe you making a mountain out of a mole hole? is that right? well lets say blowing things outa proportion.

Okay so there you are walking about...enjoying life after exams...enjoying life...so then every thing changes when you meet this guy...fate does whatever it does and suddenly you realise oh my goodness this is the guy I want to marry. :eek: Now you have come to this realisation but the brother gives no such indication...but you KNOW he likes you... You can't leave it just like that it... so the summer is almost over...you have to return to uni soon... :mad: he still hasn't said anything...so you say...Listen have you thought about marriage? very sweaty palms.. he says i have thought of little else...You stare blankly at him... I would like nothing more than for you to be my wife but iam quite certain you will say no :confused: Heh? have I missed something you ask yourself? You see...he continues...Iam married already... :eek: It was arranged, she is my relative I have grown to like her but I don't think i can love her...Now it is his turn to stare at you blankly... So Women of SOL what would you say or do? :confused:

Different, How boring is it if you are trhe same? Even though I would prefer if he didn't even ask me if it doesn't matter to him, because I def won't be asking him!!!! Erm I haven't played this game in such a long time... ok What do you prefer, Exams or Coursework....

perhaps i would feel that "miaow" if it was a bit more original...ok Iam going to look for inner peace....wish me luck :rolleyes: still looking... must be in here somewhere... ok let me get some tea then i'll look so more

Boredom plagues me, it hangs above my head like a dirty halo, it follows me around and suffocates my senses, can anyone help me? Boredom is becoming my best friend...... (make of this post what you will!!)

can you let us know whta happens? i would advise you NOT to approach him, bloody hell that is MADNESS! stay put an act like a disinterested observer!

If anyone wants to give me advice can you do so in english please, all i see is "Chubacka" and a lot of crazy letters next to it. Anyway I tink laddeez u misunderstand, I was just inviting you to indulge in a little fatasy. I like being female, can't imagine being a guy, gosh that must be strange and if I was a man I probably wouldn't do any of the things I said I would like to do... so I was asking you proud women of SOL just to pretend not disown ur gender :eek:

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Why doesn't he want you to go out? Is he joking or does he really mean it? Does he feel neglected or threatened? Personally i would rather stay in but if i had to go out that night like if me friend having a nervous breakdown or something then just explain to him why you NEED to go. Surely he can't be really unreasonable, after all you did marry him and you do love him despite everything. Anyway Iam going on....to sum up just i wuld say the best remedy would be to talk.

I don't know ehy but I think it would be so much fun being male. The first and foremost thing i would do if i were a guy would be to leave home...go off.....be independent...be a man! Next I would join the army...train with the British then leave for Palestine!!!!! oh or I would go Somalia and have a horse farm...ride a differenr horse each day.... Damn I would have so much fun!!! Anyways gals what would you spend your days doing if the first words you heard were "Marshallah its a georgeuos litle boy...."

Ouch!!!!!

Okay hope you got all ur negative feelings out the way, i for one feel truly detoxed ( only in mind unfortunately me body could use a little that way) anyway What or whom do you love so much it makes you smile even though ur exams in a matter of days? ok me again oh my gosh hate was so much easier... ok.... * People's life stories, autobiographies, generally summary of ppl's lives, its really interesting and I always get up feeling a bit thoughtful. *My litle nephew, he was 2 months on Monday and he is absolutely gorgeous....such a character....a bit moody though ...cnt tink who he takes after.... * Early morning, after it's rained or there mist, the air is kool, love that time. Ur turn be prepared to tink hard, :rolleyes: