subhanallah! What a situation! make sure you are not commiting zina by going no where near it. If you like someone find out about marrying them. Really you cannot cheat Allah. Wheather it is zina or not, is dis not a a great sin in the eyes of Allah. The person has to repent an try their utmost not to return to such circumstances as would lead to this situation. But truly as DK said Allah knows best, it is not for lay ppl like us to define what is zina an what is not. All we can do is advise eachother, an they best advice is to stay away from all that is doubtful! Salaams

^^^^^^^^ OMG :mad: :mad: :mad: Excuse me? from my experience its the somali WOMEN who do everything. Most blooming faraxz dnt even know the ages of their children let alone der birthdays, all they know is the way to the marrfish an the to the job centre to sign on. No wonder somali women look else where :rolleyes:

ha ha ha ha

I jst luv this tafseer of Surah Yusuf by Yasir Qadhi. You can download it onto Mp3 aswell. http://www.audioislam.com/?subcategory=Tafseer

^^^^^ Its hilarious, first they were mearnt to be outraged by the idea of semi clad somali girls advertising poker, when they couldn't find it they're all typing god knows what into google as if they had been short changed!

^^^^^ It's nice of you trying to think of a way of saving him money! I think gift vouchers are the safest option, den she can have a fun day out choosing things she would neva have bought otherwise. Also mayb like a watch or something (something impersonal) owww where are all my nice cousins?

Its jst takes one suggestion an all hell is let loose. :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: Next time someone tries to start a conversation, just say "NO INGIRIIS, BILEASE"...Let me know the outcome...Alwayz works for me... Ha Ha bismillah! Bilease!

Its a good idea to meet up in Decembe inshallah, why don't you get married and cement the relationship.

Run Fat boy run! I think if you have the opportunity to study abroad, grab it wid both hands, it will def develop your character an giv u some life experience. For e.g you will have to learn how to make bariis an passto! Then you will be hot property! jst kidding, its a fantastic thing to do, dnt know about rest of Uk but Lnd is a fantastic place to study! All da best an let us know wot you decide inshallah.

Naomi, I think if you meet someone that you really are compatible wid, it wouldn't matter how old he is.

^^^ Its not foolish pride, I think it goes deeper than that. They are not bussiness ppl, they are simple folk who dnt think to sell something like camel milk, which as the article said seemed like air an water to them. Nevertheless Alahamdulliah they are now prospering from their natural resources but i still cnt stand camel milk! I am up for camel milk chocolate though!

^^^ Prob her brother, who even though he got $10 million, still got less than the dog! Those that were left out of the will we obviously quite dim, I mean, if you had a billionaire grandma, how hard would it be to be VERY nice to her?

I wonder how i can secretly place this in the sports section an confuse Mr. North.....

^^^^^^^^^^ ha ha, gold diggers and a few others besides?!

Neph sounds like how I wanna drive!

Bismillah! Yuck a pregnanant man wid back ache! :eek: That is jst sooooo nasty! But even if it is true, the sounds v. risky esp the delivery. OMG has anyone ever had a worse idea?!

So SOL has changed...thats life Farhiye. dnt worry about that tell us about life in Ukraine, I doubt anyone in here has been there.

Well, when we needed the not so loser men, they were not around so we were stuck wid the losers. so you see, it is all the not so loser men's fault for not being around when they were needed. U understand? Its all ur fault Red Sea!

^^^^^ JC if he was any better than her he wouldn't make the poor thing go thru all that an den kill her at the end like that. OUCH. Ok ur right, mayb he is dumb an she is dumber.

Salaama Alaykum peeps, This has been bothering me for a while an it seems the answer is different for everyone. but anyway... How long do you think it takes to get to know someone? Is there a time frame? I would say min a year, if you are to trust and feel sure they are right for you could it be any less? Anyway share your thoughts Salaams

OK finally I understand...(I was desperately trying to support the woman but she does not make it easy) The Woman is dumb and the man is dumber. They deserve each other.

Britain isn't heading towards anarchy, yes we do have an increasing and disturbing problems with teenage violance, yes it is shocking that a 11 yr old was shot down while riding his bike. But most places are safe and really I dnt think ppl are really scared to leave home. They may be more cautious considering the news but fear? I am glad the govt. have taken notice and this meaningless violance isn't allowed to go unnoticed. I agree wid David Cameron when he says this is not something that only the govt. can deal wid. It really will take the whole community, beginning wid the parents. If the parents can't control their children there should be somewhere they could go to and admit this instead of being ashamed. I hope this is a horrible phrase we are going thru.

Originally posted by Ha Hero's Madam: I love when the moon is waning crescent that it looks like the smile of the chesire cat I can see it too! I say the moon is a day old :confused: Is there some accurate way to tell

^^^^^^^^^^^ dnt defend da man Gue, He should of jst kept his mouth shut some more!