^^^ haha PDF! them letters r enough to kill any book, let alone some mills and boons wannabe (no offence Siren!)

^ Ameen. Amna u will be in my duas sweetie but remember shytan loves to see us down and defeated, dnt give him the satisfaction. This is a trail for you as it is a trail for u as well as many other sisters somali or not out there so think of it as that and never dispair of the mercy of Allah, keep making dua but do other things too. Have something to focus on, set yourself some targets, learning arabic etc. Its great to really have a goal and concentrate on achiving it an this will make it harder for Shytan to get in2 ur head with his whispers. Also be practical an ask your friends/family if they no any suitable brothers. All da best.

^ Its clearly not the way, its a bit lewd even by western standards. There is so mch for somali women to say about their lives an times an its best done through the right channels!

Iraqi shoe thrower sentenced to 3 years, talk about disproportionate, the shoes did not even hit him.

love those food USBs.

http://www.breathingearth.net/ Breathing Earth maps the carbon emissions and birth and death rates of every country in the world. Just mouse-over any country and see what is happening. Any vaguely interesting websites welcome.

Zeenab . this is probably suppose 2 mean Zaynab. found it amongst the unfashionable, wierd girl baby names. hahahaha. how blooming rude, thats a georgeous name.

^ hahaha, too much of a gesture that. Han, a simple, well made card to say thanks goes a lot way I think. Its always hit or miss with presents.

A great speaker an a great revert story.

May Allah grant him a high place in jannah and give those he left behind strength and patience. All the best sis.

^did the medicine make him see sense?! Poor lady is full of contradictions, how can he be a "good guy" when he was bullying her for years. :rolleyes: Lets hope for her sake he stays in Peru.

Thats cool Captain, found a way around it. Tnks anyhow.

Anyone know any websitesthat will let you generate free personalised newspaper headlines? All the ones I found demand a payment or they take too long. (this doesn't deserve a whole thread but want this asap) thanks in advance, would appreaciate any suggestions.

^ was he somali too? ilaahey ha u naxiristo. This is becoming the grim reality of life in Ldn.

he sounds v. paranoid an that vid seems to have startd him off (although as Val said we know next to nothing about him so mayb he has always been v. suspicious.) If you cnt reason with him now do u think it will get any better once ur married? Pray ur salatul istikhara deary and dnt rush into anything, tell him that his paranoid behaviour is really upsetting u and he needs to snap out of quickly if he wants to carry on where u left off. men! :mad: :rolleyes:

Originally posted by nuune: From the MSNBC article: Around a year and a half after we were married, we met Eric. hahaha, that sounds so funny. but don't for one min believe poor Alan is okay with his wife jst going over to her "other" husbands house whenever she wants.

Originally posted by NGONGE: She was 15 and was on the pill. hahahah i dnt know whether to laugh or cry. Blooming hell. What a strang twist that the girl is 15.She seems an islaan next to these two.

If they put in 3 cards, all with diff names of relatives (as I do) then its prob too long. An you must be one of those ppl that huff an puff in the line which make me jst want to go even slower. Hi ppl. Is 6 too early to get up EVERY morning?

Can you wrap lil Salahadeen up plz its freezing! Congrats an may Allah make him from amongst his righteous servants.

and could you not find an less explicite pic to illustrate your point?

Glasseyed Girl, yes you prob will have to spk to a few ppl before setterling down but my point is, esp if your intention is marriage, why would you spk to 2 or more guys at once? If you choose to spk to someone then there is the commitment right there, why would you spk to someone you see no potential in? I would say one at a time plz, form an orderly queue.

Give him a book an make dua for him iA, also you can offer to give him quran if he is interested. Glad "Mo" isn't the partner!

Originally posted by underdog: QUESTION: Originally posted by chubacka: [qb] An if you expect the man to be speaking to different girls besides you, what happens when you decide you want to marry him, but he might actually prefer Miss 2 or 4? ANSWER: Originally posted by chocolate & honey: ... Most women would flip and issue an ultimatum. Most women should wish them luck an not look back! "Want to go see a movie?" "Can't, I'm busy" Work very well.. REALLY? Are you easily fooled or are there v. good actresses over there? Busy an no proper excuse is probably the worse thing the guy could say an he would pay for it wheather he knows it or not.

Originally posted by GlassEyeGirl: I do believe in the concept of "100 la hadal halna ka aroos" how else are you going to choose the best out of the bunch . I don't think there is any real commitment or obligations toward one another when people are dating, it is just a trial period to see if you are a match. And don't be naive to think that this person is just seeing you only. Everyone is guilty until marriage proves them innocent. How can you give anyone a fair chance if you spk to a thousand diff men at once, this seems a bit crazy let alone confusing. I would have thought the commitment begins when you choose to spk to that one person an ends when you ignore their calls! An if you expect the man to be speaking to different girls besides you, what happens when you decide you want to marry him, but he might actually prefer Miss 2 or 4? I have known girls like that but funny thing is they would be v. hurt if they found out the guy was speaking to other girls. :rolleyes:

Gordon Ramsey? An u lot r in no place to talk about exporting rubbish.