Morning ppl. Whose found ramadan far too easy so far? I was trying to explain to an expecting sister how easy it is, she would not believe me.

^ don't use all your energy reserves on thinking JB. socdaalka Kameraada is a good show.

I think your post frigthened them into action.

Oz if you know all the signals then maybe next time a decent guy shows an interest you can stop yourself before running the other way. Also ask yourself what you are so afraid of? What is the worst that can happen? Anyw all the best inshallah, dnt worry too much about it, maybe noone has been decent enough to stick around for so far.

Originally posted by rudy-Diiriye: everyone can say stuff. Rudy D.

Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiy aar: And after bishaan barakeysan what happens? Back to one's routine, without the slightest irony of understanding bisha soonka micnaha ka dambeyso oo loo soo dajiye. In reality this is what most people do, because ppl are weak, because shaytaan is back, because they are no longer fasting and everyone is doing it, but the mentality is wrong. They say it takes 30 days to break a bad habit for good and Ramadan seems the perfect opportunity. May Allah help and strengthen us iA.

hahaha. loving these strong women.

^hahaha. there is some truth in somali sisters, especially practising ones wanting to marry out but majority still marry somali guys. An if some somali girls avoid faraaxs like the plague its only bcoz of their experience of them right?

You started off looking for a somali girl and then you discovered a "fantastic way to find love with a non-somali" woman! hahaha. Are you saying its v difficult to find somali girls who want to settle down with a faraax? Also if these sites are not muslim agencies, I am guessing the pool of muslim women on there won't be large, so again it comes down what you are looking for in the first place.

Keep the good work brother!

all looks a bit half hearted, give it a few years. nice dress btw.

Ameen. Congrats, am sure your wife is glad its all over!

Nice eyes and all else (within reason ) can be overlooked.

^Lets hope so inshallah. Even in those cases though the police are usually reluctant to admit they were wrong and all the while these ppl are shut away from the world. I heard this on the radio this morning and straight afterwards came a report about the awful conditions suffered by somali's in some refugee camps in Kenya due to overcrowding. depressing and a half.

I can imagine some of these sisters pushing their husbands out the door with a tuna sandwich and the poor man, holding onto the door frame, pleading "but i don't want to go!" In all seriousness though,it would be up to the husband as he is the one who has to be willing to go to jihad and risk his life. That would be his decision. If he had the courage to go I wouldn't discourage him provided that this was a "real" jihad that was recognised by scholars and it did not involve blowing up poor innocent people going about their daily lives. :mad:

Che, make Allah make it easy for you. Let me try an remember last night....I remember listening to a radio conversation about powerful men and why women are attracted to them. the rest is a blur.

Originally posted by Abwaan: quote:Originally posted by chubacka: I counted 3. HOW MANY ? ............. 3? good try but that is not the right number...No Joke! Really, go Back and Try to find the the number of F's . hahahahah. How is it so easy to miss the the Fs, when you are delibrately looking for them?! very wierd. (wonder wot else I cnt see?!)

I counted 3.

May Allah grant him a high place in jannah and give you and your family patience to go through this hard time.

^ apparently he was born on the 25th too.

these girls (apart frm the discloser)sound similar, someone who is insecure about the relationship she is in and needs some reasurrance from the guy and because of this need her worse nightmare (getting dumped) is likely to come true. but from my experience its normally the girl that does the dumping, i think men are jst too lazy.

Originally posted by xiinfaniin: July 24, 2009 Pelican Park Journal In a Complex Family, Death Adds to the Indignity By BARRY BEARAK “You hear it all the time.” She reflected further, “If my husband does it, I’ll slit his throat.” If every man was told the grave consequences of such an action then i think there might be a bit less polygamy around.

Another event for sisters, (apologies about size, this always seems to happen with posters) :confused:

^ hahaha. sounds like something from one of these cheap women's magazines.

very inspiring, thanks for sharing.