mataan I would realy urge you to pray when the prayer time comes. you cannot actually pray all one time, because every prayer has a prescribed time and that's the time you or anyone else should pray. also know that it's not acceptable to "qallo" prayer if it passed you knowingly, the only time you can use that technique is if you were sleeping or on a road trip and had no where to pray. please do try your best to pray on time and if that's not possible try to atleast go after the salat before the other one comes. Ilaahay hana soo wada hanuuniyo I don't have problem with fajr prayer as I am up early every morning, but i'm having dificulties praying duhur on time, I try to pray before asar, even though that's not as close as to praying on time i'm still working on it...Insha allah soon I will pray on time

walaal sniper oral sex is not harram but it's not hallal either because there is no ayyah that's specifically forbids "oral sex" we know the quran talked about "anal" being harram which was basicaly the cause of qawmu ludh's doom many scholars debated about this very issue and came to the conclusion that it's not harram but karahiyo allahu aclam though Salaam

hahahaa thats good one i'm kind of new to this site but i see myself coming back for more with all this nice and funy nomads who can blame me right hey walaalkiis if i get into trouble i'm gonna sue heheyou since you put the idea to my head salaam ------------------

That is very sad to hear indeed family time is becoming thing of the past who knows maybe is the hecktic work schedules or maybe we are forever chasing dunya if any on you nomads is parent please do realize material things or money comes and goes but you only get to watch your child growing up once that oportunity never comes back please do take advantage of that and be the best mom or dad you can be Salaam ------------------

SALAMA CALAYKUM though polygomy is allowed in our beautiful religion, if and when one can fullfill his duties to provide for his family and to be fair with all involved. the real question is what makes one seek the comfort of another women like Soul_Lady said could it be that the wife is not completing her duties as a wife or maybe he is not completely satisfied at home married couples should always re-evaluate their life and see if they are the happiness of their significan other or the couse of missery its never too late for one to change in my opinion i think any man that looks for another person is missing something from his current partner so it will be easier to step aside than tobecome a second class citizen in his hearth...to the above queston...yes/no i would allow my husband to marry another women only under ONE condition that is if he is marrying a women that bare children for his dead brother and cannot take care of herself and kids i think it would only be fair on my part to allow him to provide for his extended family....also maybe if his cousing is old and not never maried you know with this ratio of man to women getting scarrier everyday i don't want to be greedy... looks like i'm changing my mind after all...anyhow we can all give our opinions now on whether we would or wouldn't allow it but when reality hits our emotions or rather impulse are the ones we have to real on... thats just my opinon and BTW sorry if i was long or didn't make sense i'm rather tired salaam ------------------

SALAMA CALAYKUM though polygomy is allowed in our beautiful religion, if and when one can fullfill his duties to provide for his family and to be fair with all involved. the real question is what makes one seek the comfort of another women like Soul_Lady said could it be that the wife is not completing her duties as a wife or maybe he is not completely satisfied at home married couples should always re-evaluate their life and see if they are the happiness of their significan other or the couse of missery its never too late for one to change in my opinion i think any man that looks for another person is missing something from his current partner so it will be easier to step aside than tobecome a second class citizen in his hearth...i would allow my husband to marry another women only under ONE condition that is if he is marrying a women that has children for his dead brother and cannot take care of herself and kids i think it would be fair on my part to allow him to provide for his family....also if his cousing is old and not never maried looks i'm changing my mind after all...anyhow we can all give our opinions now and we would or wouldn't do such thing but when reality hits our emotions or rather impulse will make the decisions thats just my opinon and BTW sorry if i was long or didn't make sense i'm rather tired salaam ------------------

Soul_Lady the one had me fall off my chair for real everyone in the lab is thinking what in da world is wrong with this woman that was good one sister ------------------