Sabalkher..! (i.e. Good Morning in Arabic, subaxa waneksan in Somali) quote from Legend of Zu: ----------------------------------------------- First what is Salbakheri????? ----------------------------------------------- I hope l answered your question Legend of Zu. quote from Ms. Dhucdhuc & Dheylo: ------------------------------------------------ 1)64 million dollar question. If i had the answer, i would be millionare. All I can tell you is..that Love do truly exist between married couples (or at least it should). The relations between the spouses should be based on tranquility, love and mercy. 2)Allah says in the Holy Quran (30:21), "And among his signs is this, that he created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and he has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." ------------------------------------------------- According to your statement above Ms. Dhucdhuc & Dheylo, if a husband does not reflect love from his heart it means Allah did not put it in his/her heart right. What about that husband who says he loves you but when he sees another young beautiful girl decides to merry her or just go and sleep with her, is it that Allah has put a new love to this husband to a young girl and that the love which was towards the first wife is now kind of week? What about the first wife finding another men and have sex with him and still remain married to the first men/husband. Again if someone can explain to me about this because it breaks ones heart, and please be serious with your reply, because you can either heal or continue to wound with your answers. Shukran...thank you.

Salbakheri..! Thank you ALL for your ideas and your warm welcome...shukran' Let me try to review one by one for l think some are coming to my help about what l am about to conclude. Valenteenah said," quote: --------------------------------------------- 1) Love exists. True romantic love exists as well. Love is thought to originate from Adam and Eve, the first romantic couple in history. ---------------------------------------------" I agree with you Valenteenah, Love exist-True romantic Love. Using Adam and Eve as an example l think this is so helping because it leads me to understand if they had a true romantic love, then it is true that which l have been told that they got that Love from the one who created them. So WE CAN SAY GOD IS LOVE. One day a friend of mine show me in the Bible were it exactly give a definition of who God is, and that God is LOVE. Probably l will try to find it and post it next time. quote: ----------------------------------------------- 2) Love isn't all about sex, however love and sex do go together like afternoon tea and cream scones or designer jeans and killer high heels. So, although they can be mutually exclusive, it's vastly better to have them together. ------------------------------------------------ I also like your second point however only when a man will be faithful to his wife and not cheating like many Saudia mens. Even travelling outside to go have other womens and only returning to pretend that you are the only one.

Salbakheri.. What an intereristing topic raised by Ms Dhucdhuc & Dheylo. Are you from Saudia? Infact l like those 60 suggestions which look like, by the time you get to the 60eth, some or many will be like one waking up, up from a dream after eating several pieces of pizza. And some will be like getting out of a romantic movie with only memories of how good the movie was but sadly never to live or experience that kind of life style. What is Love, true Love and were is it originated? Is Love all about sex? Because if we will not be careful these 60 ways are or seem to me like how to keep your wife turned on all the time ready for sex when you(husband) needs it. Please explain to me how out of those 60, a husband can treat a wife differently than a "player" can. Or otherwise, most husbands are just players with permits. I am not talking about long marriages and how nice he is talking to you at home while he needs to satisfy his desires. If that is Love why then can't be satisfied with one, having practiced those 60 ways to keep you blinded. Again what is Love? By the way, Love takes two hearts intimately united by Love Himself to share and discover (its)their uniqueness with tolerance of acceptance without exceptions which will lead to separation. So what about 60 ways to keep your husband's love. Love gives and receives, it is two way not one way. Let me wait for your inputs, have a good day.

Salbakheri.. What an intereristing topic raised by Ms Dhucdhuc & Dheylo. Are you from Saudia? Infact l like those 60 suggestions which look like, by the time you get to the 60eth, some or many will be like one waking up, up from a dream after eating several pieces of pizza. And some will be like getting out of a romantic movie with only memories of how good the movie was but sadly never to live or experience that kind of life style. What is Love, true Love and were is it originated? Is Love all about sex? Because if we will not be careful these 60 ways are or seem to me like how to keep your wife turned on all the time ready for sex when you(husband) needs it. Please explain to me how out of those 60, a husband can treat a wife differently than a "player" can. Or otherwise, most husbands are just players with permits. I am not talking about long marriages and how nice he is talking to you at home while he needs to satisfy his desires. If that is Love why then can't be satisfied with one, having practiced those 60 ways to keep you blinded. Again what is Love? By the way, Love takes two hearts intimately united by Love Himself to share and discover (its)their uniqueness with tolerance of acceptance without exceptions which will lead to separation. So what about 60 ways to keep your husband's love. Love gives and receives, it is two way not one way. Let me wait for your inputs, have a good day.